2006-10-03 12:58:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey, if your date is a hottie, you may WANT sex before even the first date but you certainly can't let your date see that and you certainly shouldn't give in to the desire.
There's a big difference between wanting and doing. Wanting is normal. Doing (too soon) is skanky.
2006-10-03 13:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-03 20:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can want sex on the first date but expecting sex is a different story! It takes 2 to want sex and some people who value themselves and the power sex has on a relationship take some time to warm up to the idea.Chances are when someone feels valued and secure it will happen but not because of a number of dates.
2006-10-04 09:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by wecair2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always want sex... isn't that why you wanted to date in the first place? BUT actually having sex depends when you are both comfortable with the idea of having sex.
2006-10-03 20:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets be honest most people are walking around Horne,but theres a little thing called respect.so you wait id say 1mth-3mths,gives you the chance to get to know the person.and waiting builds the anticipation,and makes the first time with that person that much more intense and i believe relationship last a lot longer when you have more than just sex.
2006-10-03 20:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by my space 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many, sex isn't something that can be defined by the number of dates! It is between 2 people whether they are ready or not. It is a mutual decision.......
2006-10-03 20:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by Webballs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget the how many dates its what u and the other person feels u both will know when the time is right it could be on the 1st, 2nd 50th it does not matter
2006-10-03 20:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just one to WANT sex but to actually do it depends on you. I would say 4. But only after you two have decided to be exclusive.
2006-10-03 20:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by thebrandy74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, wanting is one thing, to start wanting sex, well you can do that at any point. But to actually have sex, thats a personal prefrence I guess.
2006-10-03 20:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by waterchick1822 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we always want sex-it is the attraction that draws us
but I would say at least wait 2-4 weeks so you can get to know the person not just the hormones
2006-10-03 20:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by rwl_is_taken 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋