I'm still having nightmares.
I saw my mother and father...doing IT!
I've asked you previously why?I don't want a brother or a sister(already have one).
I don't want to talk with my mother or father about sex because I couldn't possible stand to look at them in the eyes.
I keep having that disgusting picture in front of my eyes!
How to erase it from my mind?
I don't think I want to see them anymore...
One thing is for sure-I'll never have sex!
2006-10-03 12:55:49 · 28 answers · asked by Oh mamma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How old are you? Because you need to grow up and get over it. Most of the human race over the age of 18 has had sex with someone. Now, granted, there are 40 year old virgins out there but they are extremely rare.
You're obviously young or you have something wrong with your horomones because, trust me, when you have horomones running through your veins then you will want sex and you will not think it's disgusting.
Except you won't want sex with your parents because, yes, that IS disgusting.
2006-10-03 13:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well these things happen, in some cultures they happen more often than you would think. in some places you will have a family of three generations of upto 10 people living in one room - so in that type of place seeing what you have seen is a common event and people think nothing of it.
What you saw was a perfectly natural thing, your mother and father expressing there love for one another in a physical manifestation.
If you look beyond the act it self, and think that it shows that they love each other and that there marriage is Strong and healthy then this is good. You are in a loving family, who are most likely to stay together for a long time.
2006-10-03 15:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by kel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you had to see that. Sex can be a beautiful thing between two ppl who love each other. That image will stop being so strong when you start focusing on something else and stop letting it be your priority. And someday, hopefully after you find your significant other, you will have sex two. I remember when I was a teen I didn't actually see my parents having sex, but at one point I visualized in my mind how they would be acting while having sex... that was enough to make me sick at my stomach. You just have to block that out of your mind and pretend they aren't doing it. Try to remember you going fishing with your dad and reading a book with your mom. Just stop making such a big deal out of it. It's a natural thing and they have been doing it for years!
2006-10-03 13:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look honey, it's probably a shock to you but you will get over it. It is a perfectly normal thing to do between a man and a woman, especially if they love each other like I am sure they do.
All I can tell you is try to get over it and do not let this one incident to become like an obsession to you. Just get over it. I bet your very young, like a teenager with all your hormones going wild.
Look, its normal and do not ever say you will not ever have sex. The right guy will come along some day and nail you.
2006-10-03 13:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by MARK 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ma'am they aren't going to stop 'doing it' just to make you happy. sex is a huge part of most relationships and if anything you should be happy that your parents are still in love and enjoy each other.
too many other parents are fighting and separating, so count yourself lucky.
i caught my olds shagging when i was 16 and thought it funny, more so because of their reaction than anything else. it's like we never assume our parents or teachers have sex, so are surprised when we find out otherwise.
best to do things that keeps your mind off it and if/when you are old enough to deal with it then have a chat with your folks and tell them how you feel. for now just enjoy being a kid.
2006-10-03 13:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be daft. What on Earth is wrong with you ? How can a loving act between two married people, be horrible. You need to mind your own business and grow up.
2006-10-04 06:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by Tracker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they wasnt having sex they was making love, and it that love that brought you into the world, I hope you enjoy not having sex ever! but I doubt that'll happen
on a serious note its when Parents want to have sex with you that you have a real problem,
but if your really as unhappy as think your over reacting, I sugest you cry a river, then build a bridge and finally get over it
2006-10-03 13:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Loverboi007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's terrible. Parents should never EVER have sex. ESPECIALLY when their kids are at home! I've always lived in fear of finding my parents in this situation- luckily it never happened to me.
I guess in a way you should be glad that they still have a good relationship with each other. Still, I'm sorry you had to see that.
I suppose it could be worse- they could catch you having sex with someone.
2006-10-03 12:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do all young people think sex was only invented for them?
Get a life or at least let your parents enjoy theirs.
2006-10-04 02:48:12 · answer #9 · answered by sanilav 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol....it's strange that sex is something parents don't want for their kids and vice versa! but both have it,sex is the flavour of life,if your parents have no sex they will end up with other people,do you want them to split? and sex doesn't mean producing more kids,they are just enjoying their life,and when you grow up you will fvck the brain off the lot of guys!
2006-10-03 13:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋