Ok to make a long story short. I have a BF and we just moved out into a new condo. Well I have an older man that pays for a lot of things for me and I don't do anything with him. NOTHING......... The only contact he has with me is in emails. Well he gave me $12,000 dollars to pay my rent up for the year. I told my BF but he seems to think I had to do something for it. I didn't. I thought I was doing a good thing for the both of us by not having to pay rent for a year. Anyway should I be mad he thinks I did something for it or should he be mad that this guy gives me all these things????? There is a lot more that this guy has done for me but I don't feel like I can tell him with out him thinking something. Who should be upset here??????? Help me out people. Tell me what you would think.
2006-10-03 12:48:18 · 7 answers · asked by HappyMama 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your BF is the one who should be mad, basically by you accepting things from another man is telling your BF that he can't take care of you. think about it, put the shoe on the other foot.
if your relationship is that important to you, than show it. there's 2 of you in this relationship, NOT you, your BF and the other guy.
2006-10-03 12:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give me that old guys name..come on girl, hook me up!! I could really use the money. ;-)
Seriously....I think you should do whatever feels right for you. If you're comfortable taking money...then do it. It does seem a little odd that he spends so much money on you....kinda creepy, so just be careful.
Look at it like this: If your boyfriend was getting gifts & money from some girl, how would that make YOU feel? How would you react? Reverse the roles, and do whatever you think is best for both of you.
Good luck!
2006-10-03 19:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is an even trade. Don't tell him anything else you are getting from this guy. It sounds kind of weird that a man will pay you for nothing except to look pretty.
2006-10-03 19:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, but I find it hard to believe some guy gives you 12,000 and you didn't do anything for it.
2006-10-03 19:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by CALAVA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is free and I know you haven't done anything, but you never what he would want in the future. Your boyfriend is worried try putting yourself in his shoes.
2006-10-03 19:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't just deal with it then he's not in your league to start with. He sounds very insecure..
2006-10-03 19:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by Amber C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol, My b/f would be like hell ya! Keep doing what ur doing, hehe :-D nah he shouldn't get upset over that.
2006-10-03 19:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by waterchick1822 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋