help im freaked out?

Question

my gf told me on saturday she met wit sum dude at paromount carowinds and she turned the corner he knocked her out and when she woke up her pants wer kinda down i think she got raped wut should i do? she acting like it not no big deal im scared should i dump her or wut and do you thin she got raped becuse she telling every body diff story like she making it up

Answer 1

Sound like a lie to cover up the fact she slept around on you. She said he knocked her out, is there a bruise? Does she have a history of lying? Have you confronted her about the other stories she has told other people? And why would she treat it like it's no big deal, did you question her there? Tell her that if she doesn't take it to the cops and report it you will, she will probably confess it was a lie out of fear of getting in trouble.

Answer 2

Well you have to protect yourself so you and her go get checked for any STDs since you can get an STD with a condom on. And the talk with her and ask her questions. Be there for her as you would want her to be there for you if anything happened to you, but also make sure that you talk later to see if her story matches with the previous one. If you feel that she is not telling the truth let her know. You must always be honest in a relationship and explain that without honesty there is no trust. And why didn't she report this to the police?.

Answer 3

Don't dump her until you find out the truth if you have a good relationship with her you should be the first she should want to tell and if you really do think that this did happen then maybe you should ask her or confine in some one she would tell like a best friend. This is a serious matter and if she is telling other people a different story and it don't sound like her you need to talk to her.

Answer 4

hi my 16 yr old cusine told me and my husband that one of my brothers friends pulled off her bakini bottom when they were at the lake dureing the summer and stuck his penis in side her she was a virgin she acted the same way because she did not want to start any trouble but since then we talked to her and she came forward with it the guy is 20 yrs old and know is in jail for rape so you know your gf better than any body do you thinck she is the kind of girl that would cheat on you or just hide the hurt behind a smile good luck please talk to her about the way she feels.

Answer 5

U really have to find out, if she is making it up. Don't force her into telling u the truth, because if it really happened she is going to think u don't care. Tell her that u care a lot and that u would like for her to go get a check-up. for her own health, and yours, because if u are intimate, you don't want to end up with any disease, that u will later regret.

Answer 6

Go to the police. If she really was raped she would want to report it. However if there is a chance that she cheated then you going to the police would make her confess since it's a crime to file a false police report.

Answer 7

Could be lying or not if you can't trust her words then you should move on, if she was then most likely she would go to the police unless she new the person who did it. But if she is telling different stories then most likely it is untrue, sorry.

Answer 8

Personally I think she meet with him and had sex but is afraid to admit it to you, so she lied because if she really got raped she would a lot more worried then she is now about AIDS,and pregnancy.

Answer 9

Dump her you don't want a relationship with someone that would make that up. She cheated on you and she is covering that is what it sounds like

Answer 10

Dont dump her. Help her through this, possibly take her to a counsler or something. This could be her way of dealing with getting raped. Please help her though.