okay ... so he is a grade above me and I am in love, I have never felt this strong for anyone before ... he has been teasing me about this secret he has, he said he would tell me tonight .... my friend found out that he was going to say he loves me ... but I dont know if he is serouise because everytime someone asks him if he likes me he says I am cute but doesnt know me yet....
What do I say back? HELP!
2006-10-03 12:29:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
please .... what if its a joke? I am scared outa my witz.........
2006-10-03 12:34:07 · update #1
o yea .... what should we talk about? I need like topics ... haha
2006-10-03 12:35:35 · update #2
YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE. get a grip. if you love the guy, you don't need help figuring out what to talk about. love is very different than liking someone. it takes a long time and you have to know the person well. calm down... and don't say "i love you" back if he says it.... because he probably would be joking then. ok, so you really just need to be yourself and everything will be alright.
2006-10-03 12:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you under 18 I highly suggest you stop looking for love and start looking to make best friends. Most of the girls I knew in high school tend to fall in love all the time. But how did they know what to compare it to. The had only dated by the end of high school 5 to 8 boys. I suggest finding things in a bunch of guys that you like. Then find a guy by selection not just by Chance you get the good one of the 5 you dated. Find the good one in the 100's of friends you have made and the one boyfriend you then found. Note this could take you a few years to do so start now and around 21 you might find the right one. Until then have fun making new friends.
2006-10-03 19:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by rangerhonor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him as much time tonight as possible, play the game, we pick up regrets whether we want them or not. If "life is short", that means passion go! If "you've got your whole life ahead of ya", then set him aside. All these blogs and problems like to come up when you make complicated compromises. Let him wine and dine you all he wants and then give him whatever you think he deserves, there's a new one!
2006-10-03 19:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Nate L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful on this one....he might be tellin people that b/c he doesnt want anyone to know....guys are wierd about that kind of stuff....but if you feel like he should know tell him....if you dont say it it might give him the wrong impresion...all i can tell you is that do not put out under any circumstances...b/c more than likely he will drop you like a hot potato once you do....ease into it...dont rush
2006-10-03 19:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by Morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say what u feel about him . if u love him then say u love him but if u dont love him then dont say it and just say i just want to be friends or u dont wanna go that far. or something like that but if u think he is just joking about saying he loves u then say "are u serious ?" or something . i hope i help u or answered ur
question.
2006-10-03 19:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by curiousgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say how you really feel! If this guy likes you, he will totally know where you are coming from! Don't be imbarrassed to show your feelings! He will realize that you are brave, and most guys like brave girls. I say, go for it!
2006-10-03 19:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by I Heart ? (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say something like, I love you, or maybe we should try being friends first. or go out with him for one date, see if you like him then hook up. Not my best ideal, you dont have to try it but its all i can think of right now
2006-10-03 19:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what you really feel, if you love him say it back, if you don't then don't. be honest, if your relationship is on the edge of both of you being in love, then he will understand. in this case, honesty is truely the best policy. Good luck.
2006-10-03 19:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by smurfette6183 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you really think you should say back? go with your first instinct, its usually right. you also have to toy with the possibility that your friend is exagerating or lying
2006-10-03 19:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by kkid 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell the guy how you really feel. but first ask him if he's serious about it. you never know until you try.
2006-10-03 19:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋