I been with my boyfriend for just over a year and from the begining it has been rocky, as time went on I fell in love with him. We have our disagreements and break up at time then get back together, but there has been acouple of time we broke up for like a day or two then I find out that he's already talking to some other person. Then somehow he gets me back. This last time we got into an agruement and didn't talk for 2 days then the 3rd day I called him to see where we stood, and all he said is it was over and hung up. So I decided to go over at a later time and talk to him in person to see if thats what he really wanted, what did I see, he was with another person. So I left it at that. Then later that night he calls me to say he did not do anything with her and met her the night before when he went out and he doesn't want to be with her, that goes for about 2 days then I agree to talk him and now we are talking,should I give this another try? Things are great when not argueing.
2006-10-03 12:19:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hun, he is keeping you around for a spare. If he cared for you, he couldn't break up with you so easily. And if you are honest with yourself, you feel exactly the same way about him. He's better than nothing.
Things could get really complicated if you keep this up.
You two have given the relationship plenty of chances, and it's just not going to happen. Get out before it gets worse or complicated. It is not a matter of giving him another chance. It's just that this isn't working, and you both know it.
Give YOURself a chance to find somebody who would really treat you like somebody special.
I♥♫→mia☼☺†
2006-10-03 12:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things were rocky from the start and you fell in love with him over time, I'd have to agree that it's time to move on. You need to be honest with yourself about the relationship as it stands: is it really worth attempting to fix and build, or is there someone else out there more worthy of your attention? Someone you fall in love with and click with immediately- someone who 'feels' right to be with all the time rather than the few times no arguments are ensuing.
Try to look at your current situation from outside rather than from inside. I think you might already know the answer but are seeking to build the confidence you need to follow through with your decision. Good luck, however you proceed. :)
2006-10-03 12:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by mike_oxxbigg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! if it has been that rocky, it will only continue. trust me. it is an unhealthy relationship. he doesn't really care for you or he wouldn't keep acting like he does. you will meet a great person some day, but not if you keep hanging on to someone that is not good to you.
2006-10-03 12:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by hannah1015 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i visit't believe your even pondering!!!!! she suggested 'were in simple terms assembly in a hotel room" she is for sure a selfish terrible individual please do not lol you would possibly want to continually be wondering what shes doing you would possibly want to not in any respect believe and doubtless finally end up wondering all women individuals are evil There are some stunning stunning human beings available who might want to not in any respect ever dream of doing that and in simple terms seem ahead to being rid of this kind of i wont say the note even with the indisputable fact that it starts with C as for your newborn dont difficulty about how he/she will be in a position to sense about it they are going to regulate and that i understand identity a lot fairly my paretns slit up than be in a house with pressure each and every of the time Dont do it!
2016-12-04 04:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by reeves 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah move on girl, i'm sure you can find another person who even if you get in an argument, will be an adult about it and not break up with you. Goodluck sweetheart!
2006-10-03 12:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by waterchick1822 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up first, then find someone to be in a real relationship with. What you two are doing is really immature.
2006-10-03 12:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that........and my answer is NO!!! From what I can tell from your past relationship history, it's going to keep continuing and unless that is what you want....I would find someone else. Trust me....there are many more of them out there!
2006-10-03 12:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by BLA BLA BLA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you guys are in a never-ending loop.
You need to find someone that you don't have these constant battles with.
Dump him - move on.
2006-10-03 12:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you may love him but if he wants you then he should not have hung up on you when he was with another i think that you should stay away from him for a FEW WEEKS LET HIM COME TO YOU THEN MAYBE IT WILL WORK REMEMBER ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER
2006-10-03 12:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by piicklees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on life is too precious to waste on a s s holes that don't have respect
2006-10-03 12:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by Beano4aReason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋