My partner is still refusing to see me after we had a furious row last wekkend and i said some really hurtful things him. I have apologised and we are communicating by text but he said that he isnt ready to see me yet!! I think i have really upset him. What should i do next??
2006-10-03 12:16:48 · 14 answers · asked by carolina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
let him know you love and care about him and that what you said was in the heat of the argument and that you didn't mean it (assuming of course that you didn't mean it) and that you are sorry.
give him some time to get over his pain, as we males don't like to feel pressured as that just pushes us away even more.
also tell him you do miss him and want him to come home when he's ready.
2006-10-03 12:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Send him a "I miss You" or a card to remind him of what you had and this was only a arguement. He's probably really upset and wants a little time, but little things you do for him will get him back. go to his house and see if he'll talk to ya. If not, leave him for a cpl days and see whats happens.
2006-10-03 12:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him some time and some space. Men have a tendency to "cave" when they're upset, so don't be surprised if you don't hear from him for a few days. He'll get over it. Just have patience.
2006-10-03 12:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him the time he needs to cool off. Maybe you should go 2 or 3 days with out writing?
2006-10-03 12:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him some time...if he says he's not ready to see you, then agree to that. but still let him know how much you love him and didn't mean the things you said, wheather it by by text or whatever...just let him know you care, and you'll be waiting.
2006-10-03 12:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Jane D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't DO anything that's the problem. He must now get back to you and never grovel.
2006-10-03 12:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
time has a way of healing our hearts so just keep telling him you are sorry guys seem to take things harder then girls
2006-10-03 12:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by piicklees 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is just hurt really bad, what kinda things did u say to make him fell so bad
2006-10-03 12:20:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should just wait for him to "be ready" & when he is he will tell you since he has been texting u and tell ing you how he feels.
2006-10-03 12:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by lalalala 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hes gone to his cave, give him time, if he doesnt come back to you then he wasnt yours.
2006-10-03 12:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by rosydog2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋