i am so afraid of love. i've never been in actual relationship but i'm so afraid being in one. I'm afraid of crying over a guy. Do any of you guys feel the same?
2006-10-03 11:55:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yeah, love bites, but it's not all that bad. I would try to work through that fear by thinking about all your male friends, I assume you have some, and thinking about what makes them good people. Why do you like them? Would they try to hurt you?
Why would someone you love and who loves you hurt you, too?
A mutually loving relationship is scary, I'll admit, but that doesn't mean you should back away from it. It's also reassuring and comforting and great. I wouldn't rush relationships if that's the way you feel, but I wouldn't run too far away from them, either.
I actually wouldn't even think about it. Relationships don't have to wind up loving. Lots of people date people they merely enjoy, rather than falling deeply in love with them. Just let relationships happen, and maybe eventually you'll find someone worthwhile to love. Maybe it won't seem so scary to you by that point.
2006-10-03 12:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by gheefreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hell to the yes! i know exactly what you are talking about. Except i have been in love. And i got hurt. And now. I don't know what to do. I'm too scared to get close to anyone else. I totally know how you're feeling. You're so not alone
2006-10-03 11:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right and it will happen to you.
2006-10-03 11:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋