is cheating wrong?

Question

I am 26, i am currently seeing an engaged 18yr old, should i feel bad?

i must mention, i've been screwed about, hurt in the past left me with no feelings, no emotion and no conscience, an dits taken up till now for a girl to notice the real me, so i wanna do this, for me.

Answer 1

Yes the government is trying to make adultery illegal.

Answer 2

Yes cheating is wrong, but in this case you might not be cheating. If anyone is cheating, it is the person you are currently seeing, as he/she is the one who is engaged and should know what his/her intentions really are.

At 18, it is hard for anyone to really know what they want and I think you should use your experience and more mature age to find out what he/she really wants and why they are doing this. The answers to these questions will inform you on whether you should hold back or carry on. You should also ask yourself the same questions!

Do not let your past experiences determine how to live your future. We all have bad experiences when we go out with the wrong person. The solution is to find the right person, who believe me, is out there somewhere. Sometimes the problem is ourselves, so don't allow your negative experiences to damage the love in your heart that you could one day pass on to some special and thus make yourself happy forever. Love is no fairy tale.

Answer 3

Is cheating wrong? well lets see. No since you said that you were hurt and that now you have no emotions, then you must be right to go through the world causing hurt to others. Lets just hope that when you grow up that you will meet the girl of someone else dream cause remember you don't have any emotional ties that your little girl will grow up and want a guy just like her dad. As for your partner in crime. I hope that her love also find the girl of your dreams(cause your with what he thought was his) and the two of you can just stay together and cheat happily ever after.

Answer 4

You should get help for your previous disappointments, be honest here it's not fair on your fiance that she will end up with a broken heart because you were hurt in the past. What your affair will do in the end is mess up another human being (or two). You are adding to your own pain too, as you won't enjoy seeing your partner being hurt. Seriously, get help, ask your partner to help you through this, most women will gladly help but men just need to be honest.

Answer 5

Well i have done it and i bet most of the critasising people on here ansewing questions have to in there lives.... shame on u all for being two faced.. cheating isnt a right thing but we all do it, its the exitment and the frill of it. the girl u r with is young still 18 and engaged she wants her fun still. try talk with her see if she is happy with her partner if not she must leave him at once then maybe you both can be together if thats what you want.. We all do and will do for years to come if it was wrong the goverment should make it illegal then.. but its life sometimes cheating is good my best friend met her husband throught a affair they have been together for 5 yrs now.. go for it get all the exitment you can get u only live once

Answer 6

I am definitely for a LOT of things that society would deem perverse and whatever, but the only thing I actually do NOT agree with is cheating (including polygamy). Now, if you aren't exclusive and state so, then seeing other people doesn't bug me. However, if you're doing it behind somebody else's back, then I definitely do not approve. If you're f*cking someone who has a relationship with someone else, that person you're screwing over has a right to know about this and can hate you forever, so break it off!

Answer 7

Well let's just put it this way. She is engaged and to be married but it sounds like she isn't too sure about spending her life with her fiance because she is seeing u on the side. So you're not the only one to blame here but her as well. Afterall, she's the one with the commited relationship.

Oh...and to the poster above me...U are an idiot for saying that everybody cheats. Maybe u do but I certainly don't so I suggest u speak for yourself and stop pretending u know everyone.

Answer 8

Sorry but if you have been hurt in the past and know what it feels like then you are doing the same to some poor other person so it's wrong

Answer 9

Yes. You should feel bad. But, the 18 year old should feel even worse. They obviously don't care much about who they're engaged to, so why would you? But, I don't think you should be with them because that puts you in the middle of it all. Though, if they'll cheat on their fiance, they'll cheat on you if they like someone else. On TOP of that, all the problems going on in that relationship will all be told to you. So, you'll have to go through all of that.

Answer 10

Yes you should feel bad,and ashamed too,and no,what you have been through in your past does not justify you doing this.You are not a "proper" man.I've got a headache tonight so you have got off real lightly-ordinarily i slam into the cheaters somewhat forcibly on this site-think yourself lucky.

Answer 11

Do you really have to ask this? You know what you are doing. Do you really have to ask how you SHOULD be feeling? If you don't feel badly now, you will. We are only humans, so we can't pass the real judgment on you. Remember- God sees everything you do, and considers the manner in which you do it. If you don't love her, but only desire her that way- well, you know the rest. Consequences.