The summer before my 10th grade year, I noticed that a lot of the guys in my school started to take more interst in me. Now I'm in 11th grade and I'm suppose to be the "pretty girl" I used to not care about my looks but now thats one of my daliy concerns. I don't want to sound shallow or pretentious, but I'm very worried about , and I gaze in the mirrior at least 6-7 times a day.
2006-10-03 11:38:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i had the same thing happen to me. sort of. between jr high and high school i got hot. really hot. (lol oh vanity). but i haven't become too crazy about my looks in the sense that i check up on them. i just became a lot more assertive and confident. life is fun for a hottie. so sit back, relax, and don't worry about ur looks. just use them to ur advantage. *^_^*
2006-10-03 11:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by psgr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I started to blossom in the physical sense right around the time you are, now. In the sense of my personality and feeling more comfortable in my skin...not until I went to college. But you can't base what happens for you with what happens for others. Everyone develops (in many ways) at different times. You don't sound shallow or pretentious, It's good to care about your personal appearance, so long as it's not at the cost of your inner self. You can be careful of how you look, as long as you are kind, compassionate and take care of your education. If you have all of those things, you will go so, so far! Best of luck!
2006-10-03 11:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by ferree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to take a serious interest in studying and paying attention in school when you can look at yourself in the mirror all the live long day. Leave the careers and the high salaries to the nice ugly girls with brains and moxy - like me. Don't worry your pretty little head about it. When you get a little older and you're left wondering where your waistline and your "baby-daddy" went just remember I told you so. Do I win best answer?
2006-10-03 11:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by tallblackchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-03 11:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by Apollo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the guys just worked up the nerve to "notice" you by the 10th grade.
2006-10-03 11:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by britinSaxony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During the teen years, our bodies change significantly and it is hard to believe sometimes when we look at ourselves in the mirror and see all the changes. Remember, beauty comes from the inside.
2006-10-03 11:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a typical women bowing to mens propaganda that u arent pretty unless they say so. you need to look inside urself and like yourself for who u are and stop trying to be what somone else thinks is pretty or sexy or whatever u wanna call it. If u are ok with yourself there is no need to concern urself with what others define as pretty or " good looks"
2006-10-03 11:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fine you should be lucky to be pretty a lot of people arent an they have a miserable life i feel bad for them but if you care about your looks an look good maybe you can teach a course or something on how to not be so hard on yourself about looks or other things on that line =)
2006-10-03 11:41:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I think that's really common. Dont' worry, embrace the good looks! Just, dont' let your personality go away because of it. Looks really only last so long. But, enjoy it!
2006-10-03 11:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by Sylvie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋