I have a crush on this guy who is 26 and I am 14. I want to know if he would go out with me if I was older but I don't really want to ask him that. I know I am way to young to go out with him and my parents would never allow it. What should I do to stop liking him?
2006-10-03 11:38:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get a guy your own age. He's a perv if he likes you back. And it doesn't matter if he could date you if you were older...cause thats a long time to wait. Get a boy your own age.
2006-10-03 11:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
opposites are meant to attract, so you have that natural attraction to him. If you choose one guy in the city off the street and hung out with him a couple times for a week you will draw an attraction to him also. Thats the way it goes. What you need to do is resist temptation to go further and possibly hurt youself. He is much too old for you. If you want to you can stay in contact with him but limit what you say. He can get arrested if anyone ANYONE finds out and reports it. Be careful!
2006-10-03 11:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy the crush. Believe me, the fancying him stage is generally more fun than the being with him stage! Eventually you'll fancy someone else, but in the meantime, enjoy your thoughts, enjoy looking at him, take pleasure in the way you feel when you see him or think about him. If you didn't fancy him, imagine how boring it would be...what would you think off at bedtime, or during lessons what would you day dream off! Have nice thoughts, and stay safe!
2006-10-03 11:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by properdivers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a man and you are a young girl. He can and WILL go t jail for being involved with a child your age. Your parents will KILL if they find out a man his age is going out with their child. So, to keep the peace, keep a man out of jail, you have to realize that what you probably are feeling is something called puppy love and u just simply have a crush. find someone closer to your age and stop checking out this man can only find major problems if he even looks your way.
2006-10-03 11:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ness 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should listen to your parents and look around your school for guys your age. How da hell did you even meet this guy? Certainly not from your school! don't listen to the person above, you'll only get into trouble with the law. You're young, I'm sure you'll grow out of liking him
2006-10-03 11:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like someone else. That really does help. Or change the focus of your thoughts in any other way. Active sports always helped me.
2006-10-03 11:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should put into your head the older guys only want one thing from younger girls if you catch my drift. he will leave you on the front porch of your moms house while 6 months later you find out your pregnant and that man is long gone.
2006-10-03 11:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by §¤ŅG.¥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Back off. I guarantee you he doesn't want to go to jail, and unless he's a pedophile, he wouldn't take you seriously anyway.
2006-10-03 11:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, for one thing it is illegal for you 2 to hook up, andto stop liking him, you could say to yourself "i don't like him" over and over aain, also get a hobby or something to make yourself busy, that way u don't think about him. also, it is common for younger ppl in their teens to like some1 much older.
2006-10-03 11:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
think of all the bad things about himj
2006-10-03 15:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋