Lets say a new manager has just started at your place of work. At first he's an ***. He goes out of y\his way to be rude and make you very mad. Then you learn that he has just gotton out of a relationship and it explains why he is acting the way he has. Now he starts showing intrest in you and for some strange reason your attracted to him. He not you typical type you usually go for and he even starts a rumor at work that you have said that he is sexy which you think so but never said out loud. He has met you mother and has even got her to start thinking he's a good guy. You know you have a boyfriend and would never cheat but your boyfriend won't make that marriage offer you've been waiting for. And the manager will be quiting soon to go to las vegas for a job. Do you tell the manager how you feel before he goes. Do you brake up with the boyfreiend?
2006-10-03 11:33:19 · 10 answers · asked by crissy n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nah. Don't bother with the manager. It's a dead end street there, anyway.
But as for the Boyfriend, if you been together for over a year and still no marriage propsal that you were hoping for - it's time to have the talk. If he isn't interested in a committment, then you need to find someone who can give you what you want.
2006-10-03 11:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends. Do you love your current boyfriend enough to wait til he's ready? If not, yes break up and start seeing other people, the manager or whoever. If the manager is leaving for Las Vegas how will you two be able to maintain a relationship? There is a lot of things to consider.
2006-10-03 11:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by lucy02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't let him know. I would let him go. He started a rumor. He is leaving soon for a different job somewhere else. Sounds like you could do better or keep your boyfriend. If you so easily think about leaving your boyfriend maybe you should break it off with him too. If your feelings for him are so easily gone.
2006-10-03 11:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by sharpy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not advice, but I (me, personally) would probably go out to celebrate his last night, get outrageously drunk, confess all, sleep with him and then not tell the boyfriend and never see the manager again. Not on purpose of course but similar things have happened!
2006-10-03 11:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him how you feel and don't break up with your boyfriend, just because you think somebody's cute doesn't mean you should break up with your boyfriend. If you tell him how you feel he might spread another rumor so it's best you just leave it alone in your mind.
2006-10-03 11:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel that depends on yo relationship with ur current bf.if it's goin good then u should stay with him and if it's not so good then brake up with him but make sure u tell him y but dont get into too much details.
2006-10-03 11:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by gurlplaya11324 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Let it go. The manager sounds very losery.
2006-10-03 11:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass isn't always greener on the other side.
2006-10-03 11:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by sacharose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ...forget him..stay with your boyfriend
2006-10-03 11:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by va8326 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a dude, so it doesn't apply .
2006-10-03 12:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋