theres this girl at school and during art class,all she'll ever talk about is killing herself or worshiping Satan or calling everyone(except the teacher)that walks by our table "sexy".plz shes one of my best friends and its kinda getting me worried.HELP.
2006-10-03 11:21:52 · 16 answers · asked by firemansdaughter11 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They hate to hear this but teenage girls often go through phases like this. Its due to growing up and discovering themselves and probably being confused by what they are finding.
Everyone is "sexy" cause she's trying to appear edgy, and shes most likely talking about Satan and killing herself for similar reasons. If though, you think she may be serious about hurting herself, then you need to see if she is ok and if she needs to talk to anyone.
If its really bothering you remember that you're not expected to deal with things like this on your own. Your teachers are there to support you and I'm sure if you find one you can confide in that they'll keep an eye on her for you so you won't feel like you have to worry so much.
Remind her of how much fun you had before she started being this way and she might realise that she doesn't need to get attention in this way.
2006-10-03 11:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by punk_tigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and really have an open talk with your friend. I have a suspicion that there are some major problems in her family life and in her own way she is trying to reach out to someone. You can be very instrumental as to what direction she may need to take in resolving her issues. This is what a best friend would do.
2006-10-03 11:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by madman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is not weird but she does need help. Try talking to her and see if she is involved in some cult. What you want her to do is open up to you and let you know what is going on. Be careful, if she becomes offensive back off.
2006-10-03 11:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by mclamb63 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she just wants attention. the best way to get it is to be ridiculed. because all the "cool people" (there is no such thing, they just think they are better than everyone else and everyone agrees with them because people envy them) make fun of them and people who want to "be cool" join in., when all they need is a little self-confidence, eventhough the "cool people" don't like them they probably actually have more friends. just tell her that to get attention have confidence in who she is and she doesn't have to change.
hope that helps you understand why shes doing things and good luck!
2006-10-03 11:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Rabidactyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone at home or at school and let them know what she is saying because there have been reports that if a friend is saying they want to kill themselves, they are giving you a hint that he/ she needs help. Do it immediately!
2006-10-03 11:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by arlawallyr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find a New friend becasue your freind is defiently a wack job and a half!
2006-10-03 11:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Von 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shod talk to your friend and ask her to be a little comfortable arid her and you should say it in a nice way sit and talk
2006-10-03 11:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by senay c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly i'm the weird and wonderful chum(considered one of them) in my group of pals, yet all of my pals have their weird and wonderful dispositions so yeah, i assume so. i does no longer say that they are hyperactive each and all of the time nevertheless
2016-12-08 07:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to contact an adult right away! i know a girl that acts the exact same way and she has tried to commit suicide many times. you need to get her some help right away before its too late!
2006-10-03 11:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your best firend, then talk to her about it. she might be into drugs. my BFF is, and she is acting wierd lately. she is also suicidal, so make sure u can comunicate with her, if not talk to another freind. pray for her. i talked to my friend and i found out alot of stuff.
2006-10-03 11:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by saveitforthemoshpit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋