2006-10-03 11:20:09 · 21 answers · asked by suburbsformeandme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, you dont want some other dude doing your wife. You want to do some other dudes wife.
2006-10-03 11:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you keeping it a secret from your wife? If you answered yes, then that would make it wrong. However if she knows about it and just dislikes it, then you aren't wrong, because you were honest. The only thing I have a question about is, why do you feel the need? Is there something missing or it's just something you enjoy? Are you being safe with ALL of your participants. Don't want to bring anything ugly home to your wife.
2006-10-03 11:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by T W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES Does she know you go? How do you get in without a wife...knew they had ladies night but didnt know they had men only night....well not men only you know what I mean! So what do you get out of it? Does flirting with all those women (and more) excite you....?? Sounds like cheating to me! I am not against swingers.. I do understand the theory..only the people who I know that have tried it have all ended up divorced! One loves it they other goes to please the other partner...either way, people end up unhappy. I am not saying in all cases this is the same..just my experience.. Have you asked you wife to go? Her view is? You need to respect her view dont you? Be wise....!
2006-10-03 11:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of Course
2006-10-03 11:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by nicnoo23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are wrong because as I have heard it's meant for couples to share in the experience together. I personally don't think you should go either together or as one because there are other ways to excite your sex life besides screwing other people.
2006-10-03 11:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by mshoward1204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask your wife how she thinks about it tell her you saw a swingers segment on t.v. tell her and see what she says
2006-10-03 11:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by aisha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how greedy can you get? dont you think your wife would enjoy it also? quit thinking of your own pleasure and share a little!
2006-10-03 11:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's wrong. why would you go without her especially since you both enjoy this lifestyle?
2006-10-03 11:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by Ruth R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say yes but i guess it all depends on your marital arrangements.
2006-10-03 11:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that was the reason for swinging..to go together? I think it is..u should do that together..if that is what you are into
2006-10-03 11:35:14 · answer #10 · answered by Ness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋