Hey..
I never though this would happen to me.. I don't know why but I thought that.. I guess thats what every teen thinks about pregnacy huh? If we are so scared to have babies why do we have sex? Who knows. . Yeah i may sound horrible but im not. I look at my dad and it hurts me, i feel so ashamed, and i feel hurt for him.. I don't think he knows how much i love him.. My heart is breaking for my poor family, I was thinkingback on my early years and watching home videos and i see that i mean more to my dad then anything. I feel like a bad person, I was his last hope to a sucesful daughter..I ruined it.. Im scared, In feb. when I have her im moving in with my boyfriend I just relized I leaving my family, everything I have ever known or loved. I don't want to hurt them more.. I don't want to leave my dad. This is all so overwellming....................who else has been though this???
2006-10-03 10:59:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Oh honey I know where you are at. I am now 21 and my son is 8 months old. I was 20 when I gave birth to him and totally unprepared to be pregnant. I thought telling my dad was the worse possible thing I could go through. I am the middle child of 5 (4 girls and 1 boy, boy is youngest) and out of them all I am my Daddy's Girl. We are extremely close. As angry as I thought he would be, he is the best poppa my son could ever have and he loves him more than anything. Yes it was hard telling him and the whole time I was pregnant, but now my dad and I are closer than ever. My dad just recently gave me away at my wedding to my son's father and he assured he loved me. And you can still be his successful daughter, just don't let anything hold you back. And being scared is absolutely normal. There are times that I miss living at my parents house but just because I left home doesn't mean I left him. Understand? I recently went back to school because I didn't want to let my parents down. I was their one successful child too.
2006-10-03 11:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should feel bad. You probably made your Mom's day when you planned to have supper with her and blowing her off to spend time with a friend has got to make her feel sad. She'll probably play it off like it's no big deal, that's what most Moms do. There will always be opportunities to hang out with friends, but pretty soon (if you haven't already) you'll graduate high school, go away to college and/or move out and get married. Your Mom only has limited opportunities to spend one on one time with her daughter. Face it, no matter how annoying the thought might be, as far as your Mom is concerned, you will always be her little girl. How about having that meal with Mom and seeing your friend another day? You could even have an early supper with Mom and meet your friend later that night.
2016-03-27 03:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family may be a little upset about you being pregnant right NOW. Once you give birth to that precious baby, things will be different. i would NOT move out of a house full of people who love you when you need them the most! I would stay ans give it a try. It's hard to be a new mom and especially when you have no on wot lean on. Your family will be there for you . i don't feel as though I am a "failure'" bc I have a baby girl. I love her and would NOT trade her for a million dollars. You will have that love for your child too. Your dad will be a proud grandpa, just give him time to let it sink in.
2006-10-03 11:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young, yes. Life's going to be hard after the baby's born, too, but it's not impossible. You're almost a legal adult. You knew what you were risking by having sex, and you're mature enough to accept the responsibility for your actions. Your dad should be proud of you for making decisions as an adult, and believe it or not, you're dad's going to be proud of you REGARDLESS of what you do. You're his little girl.
Your father may think that you made a mistake, but you're his pride and joy, and he's going to be even MORE proud of his new grandbaby.
If you feel bad about what he's been going through, just remember that there's nothing that you can do about it, now, except for tell him how much you love him every time you get the chance. You can only apologize for so long before it gets old and the words lose their meaning.
The words "I love you" never lose their meaning to a parent.
2006-10-03 14:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad loves you and he will be there for you. You can still be successful, but your just going to have to work harder. Having a baby isn't the end of the world.
2006-10-03 11:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by Marleaux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you have a kid doesn't mean your life is over and you're a failure. it's gonna be rough, but you can stay in school and graduate from college. there are lots of programs to help out and some even offer free child care. all you have to do is look for help, and it will be there
2006-10-03 11:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by shiara_blade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had my first baby at 17 and it was very overwhelming, just talk to your dad he will still love you and be pround of you, parents love their children unconditionally they will love their grand babies too dont stress to much over it
2006-10-03 11:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you had sex first of all
2006-10-03 11:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋