a friend of mine, whom i know online, cut her wrist because her bf, whom of which she's devoted to, was cheating on her... her sister found her, and now she wont eat, sleep, or even move! they're lucky that she can even stand! i don't know what to do, and i don't want to lose another friend to a broken heart...
2006-10-03 10:48:33 · 13 answers · asked by xXLadyBladeXx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I guess you are asking for help for your friend.........yes?
She needs to grieve, but she shouldn't be hacking herself up over this. Yes it hurts, and yes it sucks big time, but no one is worth cutting yourself up over.
She needs to be with friends tho. She needs a distraction. Something to do to take her mind off things. Nothing can relieve this for her. Just time. She needs your support and friendship and to keep her from hurting herself. Somehow she has this screwed up notion that cutting herself is the way to cope. Sheesh.....how friggin' stupid, but don't tell her that ok? Just be there for her. Try and take her places, be with her, but at the same time, don't baby her too much. She needs to learn to stand on her feet.
Just be a good friend.....that will be a great help to her. It's awful that people are $hi++y enough that they can go out and cheat.....I've had it done to me.....twice. It sucks man, but I dropped them, and your friends needs to do the same with her 'ex'. Drop his sorry A$$ and move on.
2006-10-03 10:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs some serious understanding and support from friends and family. It's not a time to judge but be supportive. A therapist and medication will do good as well. Sometimes we all lose direction, but the goal here is to put her in a position where she can eventually realize on her own that she is better off. No one is worth loving if at the end of the day they stop loving themself. No one should lose their life over a jerk. She deserves another chance at life to love again and be loved by the right guy.
2006-10-03 11:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, except searching for scientific support to peer if there may be whatever else that demands to be performed, I might advise wetting a small piece of paper towel with cool water, folding it a couple of occasions, and sticking it among the highest enamel and the lip. There's a nerve there that controls bleeding a good way to get normal nosebleeds to give up rapidly.
2016-08-29 08:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels like because I felt like that when I caught my girl friend who I was going out with for five month kissing a friend of mine. So then I came up to my friend and "he said hey she don't want you no more any ways your not good enough for her" so I hit him. I say you talk to her and see what she needs help with and try not to let her think about her boyfriend and make her laugh and try not to mention his name.I'm in 8 grade if she's looking for a new boy friend she could write to me at vanlingoua@yahoo.com
2006-10-03 11:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Van the man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend is in a clinical depression and it would be best to suggest that she be seen by a psychiatrist....I don't even want to come with that line that guys ain't worth throwing your life away for. Just try to suggest that she sees a psychiatrist a.s.a.p., because this kind of thing is not something to be dealt with lightly...good luck
2006-10-03 10:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a movie she'd like, a restaurant, whatever. Make it a day about her.
I dragged a friend to a comedy club one time, and she was hurting and feeling insecure, but laughter, and attention are good bandages. They help the emotion wounds heal.
2006-10-03 19:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Benjamin W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing as complete as a broken heart. Just make sure that she knows that you are there for her . You can't do more than that until she, herself, decides to move on with life
2006-10-03 10:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by mindtelepathy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first let me say your friend is not stupid, just be there for her that's all you can do keep her in your prayers.let her know that people come in your life for a season they are here to teach use, as you see she learn how much he loved her. tell her to go on with her life the pain will stop.
2006-10-03 10:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your friend is in some serious emotional pain. Support from family and friends will help.
2006-10-03 10:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend need to get some serious help. Be there for her as much as you can. See if she'll be willing to get some help to get her through this. It shounds like she's battling some serious depression. A therapist can help her get through this.
2006-10-03 10:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by flower'sopie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋