and if so,do you believe it is possible for those two people to stay together forever after that happens?no matter what age they are?do you believe that if these two people are totally in love after only 6 months and have already overcome things that normally couples go through over a year together, should they talk about marriage? how soon should we talk about marriage..or should i just let it happen?
2006-10-03 10:46:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i dont mean literally falling over my feet in love with him...im aware that love takes time. which is how it was with us. im talking about just, when we saw each other it was an insant "YES this is the one i want! right NOW!" and its awesome with him! i love him to death. im only wondering how fast we should move or not move...since weve already managed to get our own apartment and a bunch of other personal stuff has happened between us and we've over come...im only cautious of how fast is too fast? or is there such a thing when it comes down to two people being meant for each other??
2006-10-03 11:02:29 · update #1
June the 10th 1990 at the Rennissance Festival just outside Murfreesboro TN in a grove where the games were setup i saw "M". She was wearing a white peasant blouse with black vest and a camel colored skirt. She saw me at the mud pit with a friend of mine and said the world stopped i hadn't seen her yet.
She called me over to her stand and as i turned around i saw an image that would make Aphrodite just crap with jealousy. She had long wavy strawberry blonde hair a few freckles and bluish/grey eyes. Her skin was fair and her lips like pink rose petals. She was quite thin and willowy.
I struck up a conversation and must have babbled about like a drunken monkey for she was the most elegant thing that could ever be concieved of. Like a voice from the past calling me home.
We found ourselves under the shade of Castle Gwynn (a castle built by a photographer on the property) and kissed nonstop for 20 minutes and i truly understood at that moment just how badly someone could need something.
We were together for 2 1/2 years until her passion turned to jealousy then suspiscion then misery. To this day i am so grateful i met her for the memories of that day and all the times thereafter of her laughter, going to her graduation, her prom, the look in her eyes when i looked at her, the slenderness of her nude form, the way we couldn't keep our hands off each other, the hours of just talking, the poems and letters and books we shared.
All from one look.
2006-10-05 13:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in it, because it is called "infatuation". It is impossible to fall in love with someone without knowing the intimate details of who they are.
Infatuation starts the interest for dating, then dating moves on to discussions about life and interests, from there you will know if you are right for each other.
Six months is a good time to know if you are in love and hopefully you have discussed the necessary life situations to know if you are going to be compatible.
If you have not spoken or he is not receptive to marriage, then cut ties and leave.
Love at first sight is a "romantic" idea and nothing more. Anyone who believes in this has not matured enough to understand the complexities of life and consequences of actions taken in said life.
Marriage will come up within a year or at least is should. It should pertain to children, and lifestyle and not so much a proposal. A year is way too early.
Do not assume you have overcome anything in a short time frame. This assumption will lead you into miserable failure.
Just take it one day at a time. Do not rush anything at this point. Let the relationship take it's natural course. Expediting it may cause more harm than good.
Good luck
2006-10-03 10:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Martin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With me attraction came 2 me at first sight & love came in second in 5yrs apart so 2 u u might c it differently becuse it varies in different people. Now the forever part is far away & instead of getting ahead of yourself enjoy what u have now. I,ve been in a relationship 4 6 months that resulted in an engagement (3yrs before I saw the guy that was love at 2nd sight) & let me tell u after that ring went on my finger his sweetness went to totally sour so don't think that the topic of getting married will make it extra better. 2 me I suggest keep the topic going for a few months longer 2 c if it really is meant 2 be. Don't stress enjoy your life bit by bit
2006-10-03 10:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe in love at first sight. In just a few weeks of dating we were being asked how long we had been married. Her dad mentioned us getting married the first day I met him. I don't think we fell in love at first sight but everyone else that met us seemed to think we did. 3 years later we are not only still together we are engaged and have a home together. Enough about me.
You might want to let it flow and not rush into anything. After 6 months together you know each other pretty well. Marriage is something to think about in the future, not the present. (Can you tell I'm a guy by that?)
What is he talking about? If he is thinking about being with you forever than go for it.
2006-10-03 10:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by my_iq_135 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I believe in attraction at first sight, but I don't know about love. How can you love someone by just setting eyes on them? I think it's possible, once you get to know someone, that the relationship can move fast. I think you can fall in love quickly with someone, but not at first sight.
Me and my husband's relationship moved fast in the beginning, but I CAN'T say that I was in love with him at first sight.
2006-10-03 10:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am very much in love with my boyfriend and let me tell you, it has been wonderful. We have been together for about a year. I know that we will be together until one of us dies, so I do not worry about the marriage thing. When it happens it will be great. And if it doesn't happen, I am still happy that I could find someone that I want to spend my life with.
2006-10-03 10:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by Amy Renee 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I do believe in love at first sight. My husband saw me in a crowd, and said he fell in love with me instantly. He said he knew that, if he was lucky enough, that would be the woman he would want to marry. Isn't that just the cutest thing? Anyhow, six months is plenty of time. We got engaged after dating only six months, and I know we will be together forever. When you know, you know. Sometimes it's just right, but if you are questioning things at all, be sure to get them worked out before you tie the knot, because marriage is only harder, not easier, than dating. It's worth it, though.
2006-10-03 10:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by smashley 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Just take it one day at a time. Do not rush anything at this point. Let the relationship take it's natural course. Expediting it may cause more harm than good.
2016-02-14 14:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, most people who do not like each other at first, but then get together last and have good relationships. I know many people like this.
2006-10-03 10:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by Aliayh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe at love at first sight. That is called attraction, not love. Love takes time, commitment, and getting to know one another.
2006-10-03 10:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by oh really 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋