Everyone at school these past days look so depressed and sad. I know a lot of people at school who cuts themselves and have scars all over them. They're so emotional and they always look sad. In class today...it was so freakin quiet! Nobody said a word....why are these kids sad?
I'm worried about them...all of the kids at school! I'm worried about all of them because I wonder how they're going to grow up like? HECK..I'm wondering about how I'm gonna grow up to be. They seem so depressed and stuff...cant really explain it tho. But I want them to be happy and not sad? Should I be worried? What should I do to make the kids feel better? What can I do??? I really dont want them to be sad or depressed. Or is it because they're in their teen years??? Should I be worried?
2006-10-03 10:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by Jellybean_93 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, if you know that some of your friends or ppl that u kno are cutting, you should talk to a counsler, b/c cutting is an illness, and they need help and fast!!! they could die. well, to make the people happy, you could open an advice column in the school newspaper, and offer advice in general to make things more lively! also you could try to find out why they are depressed, and work from there.
2006-10-03 10:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know these kids; try talking to them. I think that if you try to ask kids that you don't know wouldn't be a good idea.
If you can talk to a school counselor; that may be a good start.
I knew a girl that cut herself and it was all about her not having attention from her parents, so these kids might have issues with their parents or just unable to cope with a problem.
The girl I knew was able to get new friends and did a lot of after school activities; plus she got a job and her parents helped her buy a car.
She seems to be doing so much better.
2006-10-03 17:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by carrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... take a deep breath... good. some of them will probably grow up to have bad lives, but there is nothing you can do about it,so don't worry, they will turn out how they want to turn out. If they want something bad enough, they will get it. some of them cut themselves for attention and don't have good parents. just remember everyone changes with time. if you keep with your own goals and promises you will lead a very successful life. just stay off drugs and stay in school. study hard and good luck!
2006-10-03 17:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rabidactyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what i am to understand it is a new FAD...Stupid bc i am a cutter....i don't do it anymore, but i still have to consider that i am bc it is an ILLNESS.....you should tell someone bc People who cut bc they r sick, do it bc they feel they have no control over there life or other pains so when a person cuts them selves the ycontrol that ....others girls who do it to get attention or bc they THINK its cool are mockiong people like me and are stupid bc of it...someone should def know, what if they cut too deep trying to be cool...see what i am saying..hope i helped
2006-10-03 17:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will grow out of it there just being emo it's a fad for some reason they think it is cool to act like wimps all the time.
2006-10-03 17:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teen years are some of the hardest years... however the cutting is not cool... if you want to cheer someone... try a flower... or a smile.
2006-10-03 17:45:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jellybean there is nothing you can do about this, but you can befreind them but dont make thier problems yours as you will be sadder than them sooner than you think.
There are many reasons why people do these things but you are not equipped to help. just be friendly and smile, listen but dont take too much on please it will drain you.
They need to figure things out for themselves
2006-10-03 17:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋