My good friend is dating my husbands brother. Because we are such good friends I tell her a lot. Lately she has been telling my hubbys brother all my secrets and now my husband is upset with me. For example, my hubby and I were in an argument and I called her for advice, she automatically told her boyfriend and he was mad at me for being upset with my husband, his brother. Sometimes my hubby will call me and be like Chris (his bro) wants to know why you told Emily (friend,) about so and so. She will tell him stuff I say about anything, nothing is safe with her. Its like I don't have a true friend in her. Any advice???
2006-10-03 10:33:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes , STOP TELLING HER YOUR SECRETS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You know that she tells your bro inlaw everything, she may not even realize what she is doing. Find someone else to confide in, I wouldnt end the friendship, just dont tell her everything like you do now.
2006-10-03 10:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So stop telling your secrets to your friend. It's wrong to gossip about your husband and marital issues with other people. Resolve your issues with your husband, not your friends- it's a breach of his privacy.
Your good friend is a little gossip so keep your mouth shut and don't humiliate your husband like that any more.
2006-10-03 10:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you tell a secret it is not a secret anymore - your story is too long for me to read all the way through.
2006-10-03 10:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by john b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not much of a good friend infact she sounds like a complete *****, so just tell her no more and find someone else you might be able to trust
2006-10-03 10:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by armourofliberty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she may feel it's only right to be COMPLETELY honest with him bc she's with him, therefor you SHOULD watch what you say to her, till she gets her priorities right, she should be honest about herself, i don't tell my hubby about my friends sex lives or any of there stuff unless they want him to know, it's not right and i wouldn't want them to do it to me...maybe you should do to her what she does to you, teach her.
2006-10-03 10:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know she's not trustworthy, why continue to confide in her? That does not make any sense to me at all.
2006-10-03 10:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop telling secrets to her
2006-10-03 10:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her anything
2006-10-03 10:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by tweak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋