she hooked up with another guy, and we don't hang out anymore. she has changed. become like a complete different person. she still loves me to death (as a friend only) and i want to hang out with her, but i can't because she is never around. should i end this friendship? i am desperate, i don't know what to do.
2006-10-03 10:27:35 · 27 answers · asked by The Truth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she hooked up with another guy, and we don't hang out anymore. i am a really quiet person, and yes, she is my only friend cuz she is the only person who accepts me for who i am. the rest are just the typical "i love to drink and party" in my school. I am not. i am the typical geek who has all A's and studies a lot. she is like my complete opposite. now she hangs out with the wrong people and has become like them. become like a complete different person. she still loves me to death (as a friend only) and i want to hang out with her, but i can't because she is never around. i am a senior and she's a junior. should i end this friendship?
2006-10-03 10:42:40 · update #1
If she is a best friend like you say she is, she would make time for you, should you stay friends? you need to ask yourself one question...does she really want to be your friend and have this boyfriend as well, or is this just a nice way for the big brush off without trying to hurt your feelings. is she keeping you on the side lines in case this relationship with this other guy doesn't work? More so... can YOU except her boyfriend coming first and you get the left overs? these are the questions that should make up your mind and maybe after a good honest talk. after all, this is what is good friends do, be honest with each other. One more piece of advise...you need to be honest with your self first and for most! I hope this helps you. I've been down this road myself.
2006-10-03 10:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by dhwilson58 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having friends is better then not having friends. Dont let the fact that your friend has found someone new to share her life with. People change as do their likes and dislikes. If she is still loving you as a friend then at least you still have a friend, dont throw it away because when you do it may be gone forever. And now that she has another friend you might want to get to know them also then you just might end up having two friends. Keep you friendship storng with the girl.
2006-10-03 10:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by Don C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO,don't end the (Relationship)...You really do Miss your Friend !!! It sounds like your Friend, is just going through a (Phase In Life) If you really do "Believe that your Friend" is still your Friend then,there is no need to end the (Relationship) with your Friend... I think that your Friend will come around sometime soon... Just keep doing what you've been dong...If the (Tables had been turned) would your Friend ??? Support & Respect what you were doing??? I hope that you & your Friend can "Hang out together again one day. Just be a little more patient !!! rumeoui.
2006-10-03 10:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by rumeoui 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont end the friendship, thats just what happens when you fall in love, you want to be with your boyfriend or girlfriend all the time. When they break up then she will be calling you to hang out again. I have had friends for many years now and that happens to us all the time.
2006-10-03 10:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by camaroconvertible 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go out and make other friends. You sound like this is the only friend you have. Stop sitting around waiting for her to make time for you. Especially now that she has a bf. Hang out with other people, you two can get together sporadically. Just cause she's your best friend doesn't mean you two HAVE to hang out together all the time.
2006-10-03 10:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should find another friend. You don't have to 'end' the friendship, just realize she's got other priorities now. Make new friends or hang out with existing ones. When her relationship ends, she'll hang out again.
2006-10-03 10:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to end the friendship? You should find another friend to hang out with. Love her to life not death.
2006-10-03 10:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by accvining 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you shouldn't end your friendship! Just talk to her and ask her to hang out...after all, she didn't hurt you in any way and probably had other things on her mind. If she still wants to be ur friend, you should be willing too!
2006-10-03 10:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she had been your friend for along time it just wouldn't be right not to be her friend.sense she's a girl she might not always want to hang around you much and she might hang with some other people but I think you should remain friends.
2006-10-03 10:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by Van the man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want her for a friend, give her space. Act like a friend would. Maybe its your imagination talking when you say she loves you to death. If that was the case you'd see her once in a while.
2006-10-03 10:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by tobeyp2005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋