here in Montana. Both of us want to move, but we decided to wait till the kids are done with high school. Should we just say to hell with them and go? We want to move to Arizona.
2006-10-03 10:20:07 · 13 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How old are your kids? Your going to stay in that God forsaken state until when?
2006-10-04 05:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell with Them!
Kids can sometimes pull the "guilt" strings ie what about our friends, our life, our school etc...and they can make parents feel guilty about making such moves. However you need to and am sure you both have, looked at the long term picture. If Arizona is better for you to make a better living, have more opportunities to better the home, then go for it. However, do it at least at the end of the school year.
2006-10-03 10:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you say to hell with them? You are planning on taking them with you arent you? How long till they are out of High School? They do have High Schools in Arizona,( although the jury is still out o Alabama)
2006-10-03 10:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your wife are having issues. Maybe you need to come to the conclusion that moving might be best for relationship especially if it's putting a strain on it. Then you also, have to think what's best for the kids.
2006-10-03 10:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by hotnpink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know- how long until the kids are out of school? If it's less than 2 years, why not stick it out? But if the kids are under the age of 14, then you might want to rethink your time frame.
2006-10-03 10:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the little sausage fingers the choice to stay or go to Arizona, no kid should be denied there time with there dad the original sausage fingers.
Good luck
2006-10-03 10:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by Chiprat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you stay with someone do it for you and that person, not for the kids. I dont think they want their parents to pretend everything is fine if its really not. They would feel as if your marriage was all a lie, u know? talk to them and tell them you are having problems and that you are gonna try a little bit longer so they wont be surprised.
2006-10-03 14:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Doña! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing what you have been doing for years and years...the right thing for your children, no matter how old they are now. Don't fret, they will be gone before you know it...and before you are ready. Keep the peace if you can, dude. This is the time that takes all your courage and tests your strength..both of you.
2006-10-03 10:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dummy i thought i told you to go get a job and stay off of the internet? you have sooooo many issue from home you can't even take care of your self, i just feel sorry for your kids other than that do your self a favor get a job and take care of your self
2006-10-03 11:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by kevin n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't uproot your kids. You need to think about their happiness.
I am in a similar situation and I think I owe my child the happiness of finishing school with her friends.
2006-10-03 10:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋