As a matter of fact, they can count on one hand how many times they had intercourse. Is the "other" stuff really sex? Since that's really all the man wants to do with his wife. He doesn't want to make it better.
2006-10-03 10:09:19 · 14 answers · asked by meow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, most unusual.
2006-10-03 10:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by Robert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am on medication and I also think my prime years are over. My sex drive is almost zero. I can have sex when ever I want because my wife is a little younger and loves it. She will do anything I ask her to even when I don't ask. I am 44 and I take Levitra. It gives me more quality, like when I was younger. It seems that when I watch a good porn movie it gets me revved up. I need some outside stimulation like pornos or seeing strippers. I love my wife, but sometimes a guy needs a little extra stimulation from other things. For men, we instinctively want what we can't have. It's just the way it is. Watch a porno with him and have him see a doctor for some help in a pill form. You both need to try a little harder and understand that when you are with the same person for so long it just seems to be the same old thing. I hope you understand a little of what I'm trying to say. Be very naughty with him to. We like that. Lubricants are fun. Just get wet and wild and don't hold back.
2006-10-03 10:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by TK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if there is no thrill left or he finds her grotesque. Could be a lack of interest for a number of reasons.
If he gained weight then it's harder for him to perform and he might have a heart attack. Maybe he felt like this was happening once and decided not to risk it again.
Or she has gained weight and he doesn't find her appealing.
maybe neither gained weight but he doesn't like what he sees.
or he has an STD and only lets her give him oral so he won't pass it along.
tell both of them to go see a dr for a physical and then a referal to a psychatrist. Or maybe a hypnotist. read on:
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A woman tells her husband, "Remember those eadaches I've been having all these years? Well, they're gone."
"No more headaches?" the husband asks, "What happened?"
"Margie referred me to a hypnotist," she replies. "He told me to stand in front of a mirror, stare at myself and repeat 'I do not have a headache; I do not have a headache; I do not have a headache.' It worked! The headaches are all gone."
"Well, that is wonderful," her husband replies.
H"You know, you haven't been exactly a ball of fire in the bedroom these last few years," says his wife. "Why don't you go see the hypnotist and see if he can do anything for that?"
The husband agrees to try it.
Following his appointment, the husband comes home, rips off his clothes, picks up his wife and carries her into the bedroom. He puts her on the bed and says, "Don't move, I'll be right back."
He goes into the bathroom, comes back a few minutes later and jumps into bed and makes passionate love to his wife like never before.
"Wow! That was wonderful!" exclaims his wife.
The husband says, "Don't move! I will be right back." He goes back into the bathroom, comes back and round two was even better than the first time! The wife sits up and her head is spinning. Her husband again says, "Don't move, I'll be right back." With that, he goes back in the bathroom.
This time, his wife quietly follows him and there, in the bathroom, she sees him standing at the mirror and saying
"She's not my wife.
She's not my wife.
She's not my wife!"
2006-10-03 10:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 19:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he actually tell his wife he didn't "like" it? What "other" stuff? Some guys like oral more than intercourse. She could gently initiate a discussion to find out if there are any problems. Let him know what YOU like and figure out what HE likes; then try to meet in the middle.
2006-10-03 10:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if say intercourse only, try a new partner should be much greater.
But if we say make love, the answer may not be the same, since love is more impotent.
2006-10-06 05:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you you are not desireable to him anymore.. Have you let yourself go over the years ? If so you need to try to be seductive, and desireable to him,,,Maybe lose a few , pounds, have a make over,, Try to become the woman he once fell in love with,,,
2006-10-03 14:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by Gringa_uno 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. maybe some therapy or marriage counseling will help. if you are not attracted to each other then how did it go on for that long? what are the other "stuff?" oral things? well you need more than that to sustain a relationship. suggest counseling to your partner and see how it turns out. good luck
2006-10-03 10:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by the truth 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unusual....unless he has E.D. or at least some times unable to get it to stand to attention and does not want to talk about it.
2006-10-03 10:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like they need to spice it up. have them use toys, rope, blindfolds, stuff like that. it works for me and my wife. we just bought a strap-on and boy is that fun to play with. after years with the same person i know i will need alot of spice and different things to keep me going.
just a thought
2006-10-03 10:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by rick k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋