I'm stuck on the fence about ererything, i need to be more desisive what can i do?
2006-10-03 10:08:34 · 19 answers · asked by jonny Atlantis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I find that hard to believe- your obviously a good sales person- or you would not be in advertising- and you have to have some sort of opinion or you would agree to market tofu in ladies wear- your only 25 and in men years that makes you a older teen- I found my confidence in Jesus- he helped me to love my life and myself- not what others thought of me(I was not a nice person) now however, I learned to Make my own life from his word- and standards-
2006-10-03 10:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by drox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gonna have to get better with that. It is horrible watching people agonize over the tiniest of details. Not having an opinion has to be a very boring way to live. Why do you have trouble making decisions? Are you afraid of the outcome? Always figure out what is the worst thing that can happen if you decide one way or another. Usually the outcome isn't that bad. If you still have problems get a notebook and pen and do the T. List all the positives on one side and the negatives on the other. Use this method to see which way to go. Good luck!
2006-10-03 17:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep track of all the little things that you make a decision on. Applaud yourself. For some reason you are reluctant to 'take a risk' and it is fear based. You can't move ahead in life without taking a risk. Think carefully about important decisions, and go forward, then let it go. As you have more success, you will develop more confidence and the decision making process will become easier. One step at a time. Walk, baby, walk--you can do it!
2006-10-03 17:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by Nisey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the most difficult things for many people to do is decision making, so you are not alone. One classical explanation for those who have a problem making up their mind is that they strive for perfectionism. What lies behind indecision is often a strong fear of failure. Suppose I make the wrong choice? How can I live with myself? I have made so many wrong choices. Another thing to consider is that you may see conflicts as “bad”, and thus cannot reach a decision because of your desire to avoid all confrontation. Many people are too security oriented and refuse to take risks. Many think in terms of just avoiding pain. The typical non-decision maker is the man who simply ruminates, thinks over the small details for years so that he never comes to any conclusion.
2006-10-03 17:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get up off that fence, live life, have some fun, and start making decisions. Your opinion does count.
2006-10-03 17:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read proverbs from the Bible the best book ever written. God will speak to you with the living word and the spirit will guide you on making all those decisions.
2006-10-03 17:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by musicman035 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide what is the best choice for you when making decisions. Not right or wrong, good or bad, just the best decision for that particular moment in your life....Good Luck!
2006-10-03 17:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a back bone and be involved with your life. If you actually care about what is going on then the opinions will come.
2006-10-03 17:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u think you do this? maybe if you understood, you could think more deeply into things, giving you an opinion. Sometimes, opinions are just criticism against people you are trying to upset or annoy.
2006-10-03 17:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by iheartme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is another idea..try spell check, it's decisive not desisive...
2006-10-03 17:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋