wILL I LIKE THIS BOY AND WE GO TO THE SAME SCHOOL. AND WE HAVE THE SAME LUNCH TOGTHER AND WE SET TOGTHER I GUESS? I REALLY LIKE HIM AND BUT I AM AFRIED TO TALK TO HIM WE TALK BUT IN A FRIEND WAY. I WANT TO TELL HIM I LIKE HIM BUT WHAT IF HE DOSENT LIKE ME BACK. I DID EVERYTHANK I COULD WRIGHT HIM A NOT BUT I STILL HAVE THEM AND IF I TELL HIM I LIKE HIM I FEEL LIKE I AM MAKE FOOL OF MYSELF! WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????????????????????
2006-10-03 10:05:07 · 12 answers · asked by daniella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wear something really tight... and smile funny.
2006-10-03 10:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Milos K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... you can do one of 3 things.
1. Do the brave thing.. ask him if he likes you! you never know what answer ur gonna get.. theres a 50% chance that he likes u more than a friend.
2. Let a mutual friend ask him if he likes u in that way.. or get a friend of yours to ask a friend of his... then u'll get an answer without u isking him telling you no to ur face..
3. dont ask him and live all your life thinking what would have happened if you did..
now obviously, the thing you should do is choose one of the first two choices..
;)
good luck!!
2006-10-03 17:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by Dana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon...dont worry i had the same relationship with a guy
i told him i lkike him but he said he only thought of me as a friend but then...... a week later he asked me out and we went out i think that is the best kind of relationship friends first so u really get to no eachother
get to know him in a freindly way first
but if it doesnt work out u guys can always be friends
u can thave 2 many guy friends EVER
tell him how u feel and look at his reaction u might be surpised but nake sure u do it at the right time
tell me what happens at my email
iheartcoolcaconxoxoxo@yahoo.com
2006-10-03 17:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by iheartcoolcaconxoxoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to come to a movie with you and your friends and that he should bring his friends and you'll all have a good time. If everything works out ask him if he wants to go on a date with you. Take the chance because I wanted to ask aguy out at a party where he was flirting with me and wanted to slow dance but i was too afraid. Now he's going out with my friend and every night I sit in my bed and think of how it could have turned out. Take the chance because you'll never know until you try.
2006-10-03 17:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by xox_Edward_xox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok I have had the same problems many of times. Like all I did was have some friends of mine ask around and find out if he liked me. Without them them blowing my cover. Finally I heard that he liked ok. So I just finally got up the guts and when his buddies wernt around i took him aside and tould him I liked him it worked he said he liked me to and we went out for like about a year. And I am a VERY shy person. hope it helps! GOod Luck!
2006-10-03 17:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably thinking the very same thing, just go for it, if hes REALLY your friend it'll work out. there's never anything wrong with being honest! you'll never get anywhere being afraid. if he doesn't feel the same way, then it's always good to have a good friend.
2006-10-03 18:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by kini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will it really make You look foolish? maybe you should think it the other way- he will be the foolish one- I have seen UGLY women in my day-I'm 40 now go after men with extreme confidence- and get them!!!! it's all in the approach- you could say something in a round about way like- " there are no cute boys in this grade- well except for you--- hint hint" if he dosen't bite- back off......
2006-10-03 17:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by drox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the boy and focus on your education, once you become successful, he will be the one looking for a way to tell you how much he really likes you.
2006-10-03 17:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by Wolfeyen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ask him out if he likes u he'll say yes
if he doesn't want to go out with u ask if u can't still be friends and sooner or later he'll be the 1 2 ask u out
2006-10-03 17:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by A Luv 4 U 2 N V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive had this problem before too i say go for it cause you will never know and if you dont act quick someone could take him from you first so dont hold back to long or you might lose your chance.....good luck that is if you take my advice
2006-10-03 17:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by cb_boo_bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents allow you to date, ask him to go out some weekend. If you talk to him already as friends, then you can easliy find out what types of things he likes to do in his free time. If they are things you like to do too, ask him if he would like to go out some time.
2006-10-03 17:09:55 · answer #11 · answered by Jonny Ringo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋