i am gay and i love a boy in my class but idk if he is gay. he shows signs of it, but says he likes girls. also my best friend (who is NOT gay) has told me that when he hangs out with the boy i like he seems gay but my best friend says he is not positive. is there any way for me to find out or know if he is gay?
2006-10-03 09:30:16 · 6 answers · asked by Dylan R 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Try to get some alone time with him and talk about girls and see how he reacts.
Just be careful and don't rush into anything... I know everyone here will tell you you're too young, yada yada yada... just be careful.
2006-10-03 09:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by pceej 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him. Not in front of other people. The best place is when you are alone, in a place where no one could over hear (it feels safer if someone is scared). If you fear he may hit you or something, being alone is not the best option. If he already knows you are gay, then doing something alone with him and bringing it up is the best option.
2006-10-03 17:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by donrull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your friends to ask. they could just be like,"Hey, i have a question for you, and dont take it perosnal. I just wanted to know if you're gay, or bi or something. Because oyu act like it. But i might just be imagining it" I've asked someone if they were gay (my best friend is gay...and he wanted to know if someone else was gay because they were showing signs of it) and guess what? They were gay, yep yep.....but nobody else knows but me. lol
2006-10-03 20:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty young. Are you sure you are ready to pursue any relationship at this point? How can you know that you LOVE this young man if you don't even know him?
I say take some time - take it very slow. Why not just be friends and see what developes naturally?
2006-10-03 16:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not love its infatuation. I suggest you just talk to him and become friends. Even if he isn't interested in you, you at least made a friend out of the deal. :)
2006-10-03 16:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whey you are alone with him just stare straight in his eyes and give him a big kiss on the lips, after that you will know for sure
2006-10-03 16:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋