She claims she needs time to herself but she won't tell me wear she is going or what time she will return. I have tried to receptive to her personal time but this is going too far. Help a brotha out.
2006-10-03 09:21:52 · 18 answers · asked by big_strong_one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, sounds like she's having an affair or about to have one. I'd say, tell her what you told us, confront her, but don't follow her - that's too low.
2006-10-03 09:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!! I have never seen so many people gather up and say "Follow her"! What a childish stupid thing to do, to check up on someone you love. I advise you to ask her what the problem is...if her answer doesnt satisfy you, ask different questions. If you REALLY think she's having an affair, don't sleep with her. I personally went through a phase recently where I acted a lot like your girl...I was NOT having an affair. I was just having a hard time and readjusting myself which sometimes people need to do. I would often go out and just sit and read at the park or go for an hour long walk around to nowhere. I didnt tell my husband where I was going because it was unusual behavior for me and I knew he would think I was cheating.
He left me alone, and after a while, I opened up to him and he knows what was going on. Sometimes women just need time alone.
However, if it gets to the point where you smell another man on her, someone tells you they saw her kissing someone else, etc...I wouldnt suggest you ignore it. Just dont be a psyco.
2006-10-03 16:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sticky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds suspicious. Have you tried talking to your wife and asking her why she needs time to herself? Talk to your wife and find out if something is wrong or bothering her. If she doesn't comply, then I'm afraid you should follow her one day and see where she goes and what she does. But, give her the benefit of the doubt and allow her to explain before you make assumptions then follow her if she chooses not to explain to you. I hope everything works out for you!!!
2006-10-03 16:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that your wife might be having an affair? This is the general cause of why a spouse will not tell their partner where they are going, what they are doing or when they will be home.
Talk to her and let her know that it bothers you and see what kind of response you get.
2006-10-03 16:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by busy_mom_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she taking dance lessons or learning how to sing or something else you wished she could do? Maybe she is trying to surprise you?
It may be an affair, as everyone else has said, but you should approach the subject in a way that won't ruin a good surprise as well.
2006-10-03 16:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though she is hiding something. I know your insticts are telling you she is cheating on you and you are probably right. When you love someone and are being faithful you will have no problem in telling the other where you are going and what time you are coming back. You need to look further into this and find someone she does not know to follow her and see what she is up to.
2006-10-03 16:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you I would follow her one day. Sounds to me like she is having a little fun on the side or something close to it. Most people don't realize when they are doing something else the more distant they become to who they are with. That is major warning sign.
2006-10-03 16:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds odd to me. If she isn't doing anything wrong than there should be no reason why she can't telll you where she is going. That is not unreasonable for you to want to know. I would sit her down and tell her how I felt if I were you.
2006-10-03 16:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think she is cheating? If she really isn't it sounds like she may need some help for depression. You should talk to her about it!
2006-10-03 17:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jesabel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes having a affair with some other guy and she like him alot so now she want to get a divorce from you but shes dont want to tell you so shes trying to distant her self from you so you can say "i want a divorce" so if i was you i would ask her is she cheating see what she say or how she reacts
2006-10-03 16:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋