i've been with this girl for a long time and.....i'm deploying over to iraq this comming january....i love her but i dont know what to do......
2006-10-03 09:20:33 · 21 answers · asked by lost_n_lonely4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well do you want her for a wife or not? Does she love you? If so, she's probably waiting for you to ask. Look within. You do know the answer.
2006-10-03 13:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a question. Not sure of your beliefs, but do you think this is the girl that God has in his plan for you? Is she someone you couldn't live without? I've never been in your situation, where you'll be so far apart, but I would think it would be a little easier if she were your girlfriend rather than your wife. You can still get married when you return if you both stil feel the same way. And, most of all, Thanks for serving and protecting us. You should feel proud, and you should know that no matter what kind of crap is being said about the war, we are proud of you and we are grateful. May God bless and protect you.
2006-10-03 09:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Papa John 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm glad you are thinking it over cause I worked for a place that transferred calls from soldiers over seas & wow some women were not so nice. My husband just came home from IRAQ & alot of people had problems with there spouse. I think if she loves you & you love her wait until you come back. I wish I knew how long you've been together cause that can make a diference. Stay safe & hurry home. God Bless you!
2006-10-03 09:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by "karma" 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband 15 days before he deployed to Iraq. He left in nov.04 when he came back for RR we got married, may05 and still married having a baby. I think you should go for it
2006-10-03 09:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Melisa B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't make any rash decisions at this time. Remember the saying.."Act in haste, repent in leisure"...Sit down and talk with her. Tell her how you feel about her. If she feels the same way about you, then maybe get engaged. Maybe she'll tell you that she doesn't want to be "tied" while you're away...if that's the case then go do your stint overseas. The less distractions you have while that far away from home will be better for your peace of mind.
2006-10-03 09:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by wassup 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her and are thinking about marrying her, but don't want to leave her stranded for a long time while you are in Iraq. Listen carefully to what she says as a response.
2006-10-03 09:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and do what you feel is right. But, before you go, I'd be sure to let her know how much you love her. Take care of yourself over there, I wish you the best of luck and a safe return!!! =)
2006-10-03 09:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you'd better ask her huh? Even if she says yes, wait until you come back befoe you get hitched. This is where you find out if she really loves you isn't it? Good Luck
2006-10-03 09:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking people in yahoo what to do then I will say no,do not marry her until you find your own answer.Marriage is always between the man and woman.Not everyone in yahoo.
2006-10-03 09:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you WANT to get married? Does she WANT to get married? Do you want to marry each other? If the answer is yes, then ask her to marry you. If one or more of the answers is a no, then give it more time.
2006-10-03 09:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋