but everytime some new date knows i have a girl he just disappears and never replies my calls or msgs?? what is the problem here she's only a little girl what can i do???
2006-10-03 09:20:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they are LOSERS you will meet someone who is completly ok with it. why would u even bother with someone who isn't
2006-10-03 09:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by R C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in your exact position 11 years ago. I would meet a really nice guy and when i would tell him i had a baby, he suddenly wasnt interested. I then met a guy very unexpectedly. My daughter was barely a year old at that time. He didnt run. He loved my daughter like she was his own. We were married in 2003. My daughter is now 11 years old and calls him "dad". Every time i hear her say dad i am so thankful i waited for that just perfect man.
If they are not even willing to meet your daughter and get to know her, they are not worth your time. You owe it to your daughter to find someone that loves her as much as you do. Be patient it will happen.
2006-10-03 16:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by girlajeepin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, there are plenty of men out there yet for you to date who will love your baby girl as their own. Some of these man that you bring home are not ready to have a family and be that commited into yours. they know that you will always have that conection with the babys father and right now they dont want to get into anything like that. But like i said there are plenty of men who is it differently. They will love you baby and they will want a family with you. get to know the guy a lot first but make sure that before if gets to serious that they know you have a daughter. If they run away than fine, let them go. they are no good for you but if they stay than maybe its the right one.
2006-10-03 16:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say next time you first start dating another try not to mention that you have a child unless they directly ask you then be honest. Let them get to know you first and then tell them that you have a child. If they run they are not worth having in your life. There are so many men out there that will except a already made family you just need to be picky.
2006-10-03 16:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you want my now husband told me..(you see I was divorced and had a baby too)
Men do not go out looking for women with "baggage" they aren't read for the responsibility and they want to do what they want when they want and not around a baby. I know it sucks! but it is true.
I love my husband dearly and how I found him..not sure. He will tell you that he was not looking for a "mom" to date but when we started playing co-ed basketball ..he just fell for me and the feelings were mutual!!
You will find someone just give it time..It is always when you are not looking..so stop looking..lol Good Luck
2006-10-03 17:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jesabel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOme men just don't want to deal with a kid that's not theirs and the baby daddy drama. Since you have a baby, it makes it even harder. Mr Right will com along and will accept you and the baby. Just be patient and focus on raising your beautiful baby girl.
2006-10-03 16:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by Tonya L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some guys dont like the idea of an instant ready made family they feel that there will be to much drama with the childs father and may think you still have feelings for your ex. not all men are like that there are alot of good men around but you have to be willing to look.
my only suggestion is dont introduce your daughter to any of these men unless you think it is serious to many men coming in and out of your daughters life will not be good.
best of luck and good wishes.
GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT
2006-10-03 16:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by Chelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a certain type of man to become and instant papa. Keep trying it will be a struggle but eventually you will find the man that is right for you and your girl.
2006-10-03 16:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by Paka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a real man and quit dating assholes. A little girl would not matter if he really cared. In fact he would care more.
2006-10-03 16:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing you can do . . . just keep being you . . and never be ashamed of your baby girl . . . when the time is right, the right man will come along and accept you and your baby girl . ..
2006-10-03 16:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a special kind of guy....I'm not one of them. I'd never ever raise a kid that wasn't mine.....sorry. Do hang in there. You might consider a guy who is a Dad with one kid - I don't know..
2006-10-03 16:27:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋