I have this friend. She is really great until she gets a few drinks into her. She turns into a completely different person. She starts making stuff up in her head and constantly thinks that I do not like her for some reason or another. She creates problems when there are none. I have tried to speak with her regarding this but it is a little hard when she never remembers what she says or does when she is drinking. I feel bad because I would really like to continue being friends with her because like I said she is not like that when she is sober. Its almost like split personalities. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I might approach this without causing WWIII? Thanks.
2006-10-03 09:12:14 · 6 answers · asked by Right_Stuff66 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah, dont go out drinking with her.
2006-10-03 09:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you tried talking to her and that hasn't worked then the next thing is to avoid the situation when she is drinking don't be there. I have a friend and am in a similar situation and I just avoid going to the bars with him and when he starts drinking at home I excuse myself. we find other activities to do together such as movies, going out to eat, going to the mall etc and spend our time as friends there. I also have an intervention planned with some other friends who have a problem with what he is doing to see if we can let him know what is up without causing a war to let him know he is loved but has a problem sometimes coming from more then one source while they are sober helps them to see the light. good luck.
2006-10-03 16:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by njredgrl32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl has a problem and should go to a Dr. or
AA they can help but only if she wants it. Try to do other things that do not include drinking. The movies or other things llike that.
2006-10-03 16:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to explain for her how she behaves when she is drunk, you have to show ur affection or rather love for her, thta u like her and want to be with her for a longterm. help her finding out her real problem and the solution, i hope she will be with u again without any trouble. u can record her voice when she is drunk, but u have to be realy careful, it might hart her.
2006-10-03 16:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend ever heard of a video tapping? do it. if your friend can't remember then by all means remind her. that's the only way the issue will be resolved. let me know how it goes.
2006-10-03 16:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Julz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes to get peace you have to create WWlll.lol,good luck.
2006-10-03 16:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋