(Just so everyone knows, me AND my friend are asking this)
Well, we are more like friends to guys and we don't know how to convince them that we can be more than that. And by the way, we know that you can't make a boy like you, we were just wondering how to make them see us as well not friends...
2006-10-03 09:11:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When you hang out with guys that you like as friends and be a tom boy it's hard for them to see the feminine girly side of you.. i say be confident be yourself and men are attracted to women who are funny and fun loving... But if you can subtly drop hints that helps...
2006-10-03 09:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by Soonie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often, guys have just as much difficulty getting over the friend gap as girls do. Chances are more than likely that several of these guys see you as potentially more than friends, but are afraid to say anything because they don't want to lose what friendship they have with you. They're just as confused about relationships as any other human being. Try taking the initiative yourself, talk to a guy that you like, let him know that you would be interested in something more. That takes the pressure off of him to make the first move, and chances are you won't lose anything in the process. A good friendship will survive someone saying "Hey, I like you, want to try going to the movies on a date sometime?" You're apt to get what you want when you go after it, so go for it!
2006-10-03 16:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SPEAK UP! In subtle ways - remind these guys that your a GIRL! I'm not trying to be sarcastic. What I mean is, pass comments here and there, about silly things like how nice it feels to be hugged or kissed by someone you like. You'll plant a seed - if one of them remotely likes you, he'll start to think about hugging or kissing you! Or just be blunt, tell one of these guys that you like, privately, that you want to be more than just friends. Whats the worst that will happen? Guys like girls who can be forward - don't be afraid to SHOW them. Do you dress like a tomboy? If so, girl it up a little. And ask one of them "hey, do you like this top?" Or "do I look ok with lip gloss?" - MAKE them notice you!
2006-10-03 16:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kristen G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if guys are "friends" with you is because THEY want something more than just friends. If u show a little interest in them they will pick it up and run with it , Watch! They are just waiting for the opportunity to make there move, believe me we don't kick it with girls because we have so much in common. Think about it.
2006-10-03 16:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by Joey V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask the one you like to dance with you at the next schol dance.
2006-10-03 16:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being stupid and read all the answers to the other hundreds of dummies that asked the same question!!
2006-10-03 16:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start flirting a little, do a lot of touching when talking to him, you know, finger to his hand, or rub his shoulder.
2006-10-03 16:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by RamsGod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just be yourself and always be nice . Talk and hang out with them. Fix yourself up and remember to be a nice person. Good luck.
2006-10-03 16:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wear a halter top and when they pass by - pull em out - they will notice you alright ! Oh, Yes they will !
2006-10-03 16:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do some naked jumping jacks in front of them. That usually works.
2006-10-03 16:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋