I have had 2 kids in the past two years. This really shoots me down because of my weight. My self esteem is gone and i get no help from him. He isnt affecionate to me. Its like get on , get what i want, and get off. Forget if she gets anything out of it. I don' t know what to do. I will not stand for another. That's called cheating in my book. When i said I Do it was for him only.
2006-10-03 08:56:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stand your ground, do not even let another into your bed, that is a train wreck waiting to happen. Get busy getting back into shape, when you start to feel good about yourself, it will become obvious to him and that attraction will come back as well as the affection. Look at it like this, you need to treat it like you are competing with every other woman out there for your man and set your mind to it. Do not beg for his attention, just shed the weight, take care of yourself and fight for what is yours... It is a battle and how you look at yourself and how he looks at you are part of the battle... You know what you need to do, now get with it and the best of luck to you...
2006-10-03 09:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres the deal! The man is like all men I swear if they could have wives go along with a 3 some they would be in heaven.He wants his cake and eat it too! He probley wouldnt even have you in the 3 some if he could ! You know its to get it on with someone else period.And you to give your blessing ! I am sorry about your weight and it can bring your selfesteem down.I would do this! Lose the weight so you feel better and get new clothes after so you are feeling like a sexy chic and then dump him or tell him you want a 3 some of 2 men! Go for it! show him you can be sexy for yourself .best to ya!
2006-10-03 09:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by jessy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm not likely to decide like numerous the different jerks on right here. errors ensue. you in all likelihood won't prefer a paternity attempt. If the organic and organic father rather needed you to get an abortion, then I doubt he will attempt to project the toddler being your husband's in case you have made it common to him which you do not prefer him in contact. He became into in all likelihood in simple terms anxious which you will possibly prefer baby help from him or some thing. i don't think of you will possibly would desire to besides, in case you and your husband the two say to each physique that he's the daddy, then it is not correct what the different guy says. solid for you for telling your husband the fact. solid for him for taking the toddler in as his very own. That shows that he rather loves you. solid for the two one among you for working all of this out. To me, yalls' marriage sounds extra effective than maximum on the quantity of forgiveness your husband has and the quantity of honesty which you have, and which you do not circulate away on the drop of a hat like maximum folk. yet i desire you discovered your lesson and could by no potential cheat in this way of sturdy guy back. solid success interior the destiny.
2016-10-15 11:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by lurette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adding a third party to the bedroom can be exciting if both parties want it, but you need to tell him you aren't comfortable at all with that. Maybe thats his way of telling you he wants to "spice " it up some. You can do other things to take his mind off the threesome.
2006-10-03 09:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by shimmers76 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you two should see a marriage therapist. Sounds like you both have a few issues you need to talk about and find out why they are happening.
2006-10-03 08:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband wants to add another what to the bedroom? What are you talking about, Willis?
2006-10-03 08:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no. Tell him it is not your "moral". Many couples fall into grave danger with their relationships after this situation. Just stand your ground upon NO!
2006-10-03 08:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by skawp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband sounds very insensitive. It may be advisable for you both to start seeing a therapist.
2006-10-03 09:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by JaneDivided 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not 100% comfortable with the situation, say no and stand your ground.
2006-10-03 09:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by Giz2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's trying to add another woman, ask is it ok to add another man to the mix. He'll shut the hell up then!
2006-10-03 09:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by Tonya L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋