I believe is Cosmopolitan they said they were fake and something guys made up to make girls feel bad when we don't get them to orga5im.
I asked my old boyfriend and he said it was a lie aswell.
Recently I was making out with a guy for a long time and he wantd to do more but i wouldn't allow it. The next day he was like you gave me the worst case of blue balls.
Whats The deal are they real or not...
2006-10-03 08:56:19 · 12 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Health ➔ Men's Health
It is a real thing, and I think it's ridiculous to see women responding to this question, saying it's a lie. Unless they have balls, I don't want to hear it.
Blue balls hurt very badly. It feels like you've been kicked in the balls, and the pain can spread up to the stomach. It can really knock you down for hours and hours.
However... this is never an excuse to give into sex if you are unwilling. Your partner should always respect you.
First, if you decide you don't want to participate, it would be considerate to not do anything that would give a man blue balls... such as making out. If you arouse him, he can get blue balls.
If he is aroused, and you want things to stop, give him some privacy to go masturbate... alone. He will still have minor pain, but it will go away much faster.
Another trick is masturbating before he sees you.... like the trick in "Something About Mary" :) This can help reduce the chances of getting blue ball. Just tell him to do it before he sees you, and that will help a lot.
Good luck, and play safe :)
2006-10-03 13:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The condition more accurately called pelvic congestion is very real and very painful. It results from the pelvic area being engorged with blood for an extended period of time. During arousal extra blood is pumped into the entire region not just into the penis. After a time the area becomes tender and the cramp like feeling can spread even causing nausea, much like a guy getting hit in the crotch.
This doesn't mean you have to put out to save him! ( I have a daughter too) But please, a little sensitivity would not hurt. Perhaps long make out sessions that are only going to lead to frustration are not a real good idea. Can you find something else to do to take up more of your time together? Can you find some way of limiting the make out time? (Mom wants me home early tonight. Or...whatever) It may be fun for you to have this guy all hot and bothered for hours on end but you should know that his system is under pressure and it gets painful.
If this happens too frequently there is the possibility of complications setting in, such as seeing another girl.
2006-10-03 09:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by cut50yearsago 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Blue balls is a slang term for a temporary fluid congestion in the testicles and prostate region caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male. It is most commonly associated with adolescents but can occur in any sexually mature male. It is often accompanied by a cramp-like ache of prostatic congestion and pain/tenderness of the testes.
2006-10-03 08:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by seatony 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Blue balls is a slang term for a temporary fluid congestion in the testicles and prostate region caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male. It is most commonly associated with adolescents but can occur in any sexually mature male. It is often accompanied by a cramp-like ache of prostatic congestion and pain/tenderness of the testes. While the term is sometimes applied to women, the female homologue is usually referred to by the more general term "pelvic congestion".
2006-10-03 08:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
Yes. They are very real and very painful.. So much come builds up in the balls and it begins to hurt. Careful, you might get some in the eye
2006-10-03 09:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by chris 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Blue balls" is a slang term referring to testicular aching that may occur when the blood that fills the vessels in a male's genital area during sexual arousal is not dissipated by orgasm.
2006-10-03 09:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by IB M 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think they are real but the medical tearm is called something different.
2006-10-03 08:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
In our mind it is very real - -but in reality it is just he got worked up with no relief - tell him to finish the job himself!
2006-10-03 08:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
Not really true; even if guys get so horny they need to ejaculate, they can always take care of that themselves later. Essentially a ruse to get sex.
2006-10-03 09:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
they are real but dont think you have to get him off.
2006-10-03 09:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋