I don't want to spend a whole lot on her. It's not like she's my wife or anything. I just don't want her to get all weepy and mad and then complain to my wife.
2006-10-03 08:51:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm just trying to do the right thing here.
2006-10-03 08:56:13 · update #1
Its probably best to give the same present, that way there is no guessing on which one got the best of the deal.
2006-10-03 08:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by dd 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because your married and your wife dosent know, you should dump your girlfriend as a present so she can have a man who truly cares about her (i hope you use a condom)and then again you could be some freak that all the women are aware of your relations and they have boyfriends on the side. All i have to say about that is get a huge bed and have your wife,girlfriend, and you girlfriends boyfriend and your wifes boyfriend and maybe his girlfriend all lay in it and get it over with seems how your all sleeping together any way.
2006-10-03 09:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by Harbor R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the three of you could do something together. Like dinner and a movie. Or a walk on the beach. Your wife should be allowed to know your girlfriend. After 16 years, there should be no secrets. Or you could buy her flowers, they are inexpensive and its not like its her wedding anniversary. Shes just the mistress. Good luck and Happy Anniversary!!!
2006-10-03 09:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by black mamba 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must have an interesting relationship. Just give her flowers and a 'thinking of you' card so she still feels important. I'm sure she will understand that it's not her day, the same way she understands that other people have birthdays even when it's not hers. Good luck & Happy anniversary!
2006-10-03 08:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Bug's Mama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why should she feel left out, a good girlfriend should understand that's a special time for you and your wife that doesn't involve her. If she has jealousy issues then dump her. You can't have more than two in a relationship with big jealousy issues.
2006-10-03 08:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by Kyra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Humm, we as human being can't give everything to each other but something special, i suggest to give her the prsent which u had given her the very first time u saw her or met her, what ever was ur first gift anda flower, that shows ur love for her, and may bring her more closer to u.
2006-10-03 09:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL...
Wow. Yeah, thoughtful, aren't ya?
Buy your wife some perfume and give the girlfriend the free gift...lol.
Then, when your anniversary w/ your girlfriend rolls around, reverse the procedure.
2006-10-03 08:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not sure how long you have been with the girlfriend but a gife of equal value to what you are giving your wife...the last thing you need is an angry girlfriend..."hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"...good luck.
2006-10-03 08:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by The Kid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man you have problems. Your lucky your wife doesn't give you divorce papers.
By the way what is your wife getting her boyfriend?
2006-10-03 08:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Real funny. Best joke I heard in the past 2 minutes.
2006-10-03 08:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by Marmek1210 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋