I think it's more lust, then attraction. I'm in college. I know he's not gay, doesn't look or act like it. But I see him about every other day, when waiting for my next class to start. He sits at the same table and does his work or takes a nap. And I keep finding myself glancing at him. I know I shouldn't but I keep on. He's so cute to me. And if I do, he's mostly likely to catch me sooner or later. Then what am I going to do? Should I just stop sitting there and sit somewhere else what should I do?
I'm not out, and I'm and introvert(shy).
2006-10-03 08:48:36 · 8 answers · asked by Raziel 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well the thing is if he's not gay, and you approach him, you run into having him react the way some homophobes would. We don't want that. Adding to the fact that you're not out and shy, I don't know if you even want to approach him. Maybe, just become friends with him. Don't expect anything more than that for now. Get to know him a little better and see if he's batting for the opposing team or not.. The upside to this is you get to see how he really is. Maybe he is straight but a great and understanding person. You've made a friend and you can decide then if you wanna tell him. Or the best scenario for you, he is gay and has interest in you. I mean you're not out, so isn't possible that neither is he.. My advice is better than you getting caught staring and being put in an awkward position. Good luck!
2006-10-03 08:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by KIm Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him. Maybe this is a situation where a friendship could turn into something more? Even if it does not, making a new friend is not a bad thing.
2006-10-03 10:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by donrull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this your gaydar giving you a signal. At least you could do is say hello to him. Let us know how it goes. Good Luck
2006-10-03 12:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jude M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join your school's gay group (if they have one) and look for someone that is out and that you know would be interested in your advances.
2006-10-03 09:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Kyra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should come outto him and tell him how you feel.
Good point: He still might like you.
Bad point: he'll break your heart.
This is the chance you have to take.
2006-10-03 08:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope enjoy your harmless fun. You aredoing nothing wrong!
2006-10-03 08:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just discreetly ask him the question when u two are alone and see what he says.
2006-10-03 08:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by nativepride15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE LUSTING AFTER YOUR FELLOW MAN.GO BACK HOME AND PRAY TO GODTO FORGIVE YOU.
2006-10-03 08:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by george 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋