I have been with my guy for almost a year now, I'm with him everyday sometimes all day. He has nothing but accuse me of the worst, I have never cheated and never would. He will leave the house come home and run through my phone looking for numbers suspecting I had been talking to guy, when he doesn't find number's or text messages he says I must have erased them. If I leave to go hang with my family and don't answer my phone because I don't get the best service and I mean my phone just won't ring on my end honest to god truth, he flips a lid and then I'm everything in the book *****, hoe, everything. So when that happens I just avoid him for a while an hour tops, then when I want to talk things out he says "Oh you had your fun with that dude, now you wanna call and talk" when really I've been hanging out with my family and then I'm avoided and treated badly for nothing and have to suffer. Also I'm pregnant. Is this mental abuse?
2006-10-03 08:30:34 · 12 answers · asked by Tanyae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay a continuance from the first question, I hate to sound so naive and just silly but he says he can't help it and that "He just loves me so much" and although I know it would seem like he is cheating I have no proof, what do I do? Recently I put my foot down and moved back home and tried to address these things with him, but I get nowhere with it except a huge arguement and more accusations from him, and me being pregnant just puts me more emotionally on edge. And it is hard for me to just give up, and he doesn't say it's going to stop and says he will try, but I have heard this for too long. It doesn't seem to bother him too much me moving away, he doesn't call all day and then when he does it's the same b.s.!!
2006-10-03 09:09:15 · update #1
He's Probably cheating on you. You are pregnat you don't need that crap going on during your pregnancy. Read the tell tale heart good story. It about sums it up right. A cheater normally out of paranoia accuses the other of cheating. Yes it is emotional abuse if it is upsetting you so much yes it is you have your family get away from him. Your family will be there for you during you pregnancy & beyond talk to your family see what they can do to help.
2006-10-03 08:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to make you feel guilty for something he is doing. He is also abusive. If you stay with this loser, it will only get worse. He is trying to isolate you from your friends & family to eliminate your support system. Then you'll be dependent on him completely. He will not stop no matter what you say or do. He is already being verbally & emotionally abusive. Are you going to stick around for the physical abuse? Leave now while you still can.
2006-10-03 08:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by papershadows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were not pregnant I'd say lose him now, but with a baby on the way-sit him down and tell him it's time to grow up. Stop acting like 14 year old kid. He's gonna be a father, so start acting like it. Generally people like him I have know usually don't trust othres because they cannot trust themselves. GOOD LUCK!! GaryT
2006-10-03 08:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the one cheating on you he feels guilty so he wants to make himself feel better by accusing you of cheating on him I have seen it a thousand times if you cant have trust i a relationship then you have no relationship
2006-10-03 08:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by The gr8t alien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats happening is that hes cheating on you and is paranoid it tends to happen sometimes when people cheat they get paranoid and think the other person is cheating
2006-10-03 08:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by djpyro04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this kind of experance in my past, i found that my boyfriend was cheating why he was accusing me of cheating. he felt bad and put the blame on me.
2006-10-03 09:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by ***dreamcatcher**** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is,from experiance,GET OUT AND DON'T LOOK BACK,trust me you will be doing yourself a favour,this guy is possesive and has issues.
2006-10-03 08:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by Laila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS ETHIER JELOUS OR maby he is cheating his dam self
2006-10-03 08:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you doing the right thing just keep on doing it
2006-10-03 08:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that he is cheating on you.
2006-10-03 08:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋