My b/f thinks there is something really wrong with me when we are intimate. I told him that I feel great and that is why I am like a waterfall. He thinks it is abnormal because he never had it before. I went to my Gyn today but they did not answer my question. Maybe they thought I was lying. I really need to know so I can explain to him.
2006-10-03 08:23:58 · 26 answers · asked by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It certainly isn't abnormal. I soak the bed regularly, and hubby encourages it. Do a google search on "g-spot orgasm". You might find some good info for him. Tell him to relax and be flattered...he must be doin somethin' right!!!
2006-10-03 08:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by Legs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard of a guy COMPLAIN that a girl is too wet before. It's certainly not abnormal - in fact most guys would take it as a considerable compliment if their girl was "like a waterfall".
Everyone is different - some girls get wetter than others. One girl I know actually passes out when she reaches climax!
2006-10-03 08:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl I am the same way, The 1st time me and my hubby had sex he thought I peed on him. I asked my Dr. the same thing and all he could tell me is I have over active secretion glads that is why I get really wet. He also told me only about 5% of girl have this and It is genetic. Which I agree with cause my sister told me she was the same way. I just think it shows that I am enjoying it!!! I would not worry about it unless it really bothers your boyfriend, but my husband loved it!!! hope this makes you feel better
2006-10-03 08:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda Leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really went to a gynecologist as you claimed you did -- you wouldn't be asking this question because all doctors MUST answer any question a patient asks, as honestly and truthfully as they could.
it's just simple biology that is taught in high school. you get wet when you are turned on. i don't know why you and your boyfriend are not familiar with that. looking through your questions, you seem like a grown woman already... i don't know why you don't know that. i've known that since i was 11 years old.
2006-10-03 08:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your b/f is feeling insecure about it in a way because maybe he isn't getting as strong as an orgasm or ejaculating as hard and as much as you.
He may also not be enjoying it as much as you and he doesn't want the blame so he is saying that there is something wrong so the topic of him maybe not enjoying it enough doesn't come up.
Or maybe he has just been with really dry girls.
Think about it...
2006-10-03 08:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by tolwc123ag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend to sink to his knees and thank his lucky stars.
If you feel great, you could be one of the women who can ejaculate (when your g-spot is simulated, you can gush a clear, odorless fluid at orgasm).
Also remind your boyfriend that all women are different: we all have different levels of lubrication. Some naturally produce a little less fluids. Again, you're just lucky.
Gyns are notoriously useless when it comes to answering real-life useful questions.
2006-10-03 08:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by Alex G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probably ejaculate. It isn't abnormal, women can do it, so don't feel weird. If during sex the G-spot is stimulated enough it can lead to female ejaculation. There's even a female porn star, Cytherea, that has made ejaculating her claim to fame, as well as loads of instructional sites on how men can help their women achieve female ejaculation.
2006-10-03 08:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by Euthie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wet is good. If your dry its more of a prob. Its suprising your comfortable enough with him to get that wet even though hes so critical of you. If he hits your upper wall theres a spot that gets all women wet there so theres nothing wrong with you.
2006-10-03 08:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Pacman187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yes,IT'S NORMAL!! Your boyfriend should be glad you're able to have such a climax. Build his ego up if you'd like. Tell him you flow like a waterfall ,because he's your Niagra. Have fun girlfriend!
2006-10-03 08:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by lovelylal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend with the same problem. she went to the doctor and they told some woman come(spelled incorrectly so that it won't be editted out) more. it's called female ejaculation. she has to put a towel under her it get so wet.
and when speaking with her female family members they had the same problem. It runs in their family.
2006-10-03 08:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by Hello Kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋