Can anybody tell me what my problem is?

Question

I've noticed that for a while now, I get irritated when people don't understand me or I get really annoyed when I feel someone doesn't know what they're talking about ( as if I know it more then they do).

For example : today my mom said that the Amish lived like in the old days. I told my mom, no kidding who doesn't know that. The way I said it was rude and I felt bad because I made my mom feel ''stupid'' I guess you could say. But to me it was like: how can someone not know that? Anyways, it's as if I always feel the need to answer someone back, and not in a very nice way.

I feel really bad and I don't know how to stop it. Even my friend told me last time that she felt as though I thought she was stupid... When people are ''slow'' or don't get me I get so irritated! And they feel it!
I don't want to be a b*tch, I just always feel the need to say something. :( :(
-no stupid answers, please.

Answer 1

Is it PMS or something maybe? That happens and generally people get really irritated at small things. Or you could just be stressing and taking it out on the things and people closest to you. Of course though, it could be something deeper, that's just now started bothering you. like something that happened in your past and it's resurfacing or something. Just for now, think about it more, like what's been going on in your life and how you might could change it. And if you're really stressed, try and chill a little bit. It can make you physically sick too. So be careful and I hope you feel better!

Answer 2

Well you asked for it, what you are is self righteous, what that means, is that you can't or won't accept the fact that others can have an answer that may be better than yours and that you can't see beyond your own nose.

The fact that you feel bad after you have insulted, raised your voice at doesn't make your behaviour right, it means however that you do still have a conscious and the fact that you want to change is a big Plus in your favor.

Recognizing bad behavior is always the first step to correcting it, try counting to 3 before answering or opening your mouth. It may just be that you have gotten into the habit of quick response we all fall victim to this at times.

Your need to always saying something is a way for your mind to grow and explore, only don't look down on people that is going in the wrong directions, those around you have a right to think as well as you do, a right to speak just like you do. There really is no excuse for being rude though and I can see you are irritated with yourself because you have been, apologize this also helps in curbing rude thoughts from being spoken out loud in future.

You sound like a sensible person, just need a little finesse around the edges good for you for noticing before you lose all your friends.

Answer 3

Maybe you have to learn and practice ''respect,'' you just don't aswer anyone that way, there are times we're not in the mood and can't help to be rude.. but hey, we need to realize we're hurting other's feelings, what if they do it to you, how would you feel? I think real smart people share their knowledge, understand those who can't pick-up easily, I'm sure you don't want to be hated. Im sorry but I need to tell this story, I had a schoolmate in highschool, she was pretty and smart ,but she was too proud of herself, she always act like she's the best, and say whatever she wants to say, no matter who will get hurt, unfortunately with her friends hanging out, they had a car accident, only her,was injured so seroius, losing her left arm. If you were on her shoes, what do you think you will feel? That the people you were insulting before, look ,where are they now and look where you are now.? Life is ups and down, just before bad luck attack you, slow down, learn and practice humility. but you know in your case, I think you are trying to control it but it's difficult for you,try to pray everynight and ask God's guidance, im sure you will be changed.

Answer 4

You're just high strung and over-impulsive. Maybe a bit rude and a ***** but that's just the way you are. Nothing's necessarily wrong with you. I know lots of people like this.

It's true that you probably piss a lot of people off and won't gain new friends and influence people with this kind of behavior. My suggestion is to always stop and think before you reply to someone's statements.

Answer 5

I think you might have a high stress level, or you are angry at something. Or maybe your just being a teen who smarts off to her parents.. but then again, its also with friends. So I would say stress. Maybe (since I don't know you I'm answering from only the info I do know) you are on the edge all the time from being stressed/angry that one "stupid" comment that someone makes, breaks you loose. You don't have control anymore because you are so fed up with.. well everything.? Do you have a tendency to bottle things up inside.. like your opinions or your feelings? Maybe that is what is causing it. But then again, I don't know you, I don't know where you come from, or how you have been brought up.. so I'm just giving my gut instinct.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

dear sabrina fair,
iam so astonished u know the problem that u make people feel stupid,and the solution is :
1.when u hurt someone apologize in order not to lose the love and the trust of those who love u.
2. try to take care of Ur self when speak about it and if u felt that the person that u are talking to understood u wrong , make explanation at once and make every thing clear.

Answer 8

you just need to realize that people say what they say, I don't know the context of your converstation with your mom, but instead of saying what you said you could have added to her comment i.e. yeah but did you know the ones that make funiture are actually really wealthy, or that there kids when they turn 18 are allowed to enter the real world for year, if someone says something you deem stupid help them out and add on to what they said or in a nice way help to clarify their thoughts, and remeber there are 7 types of intelligence, most of us have atleast one of them, there are areas where they are better than you, and also remember that no matter how smart you think you are there are people smarter

Answer 9

I know how you feel. Sometimes I feel smarter than people, or that I "think" faster than those around me, and I dont mean to talk fast and or respond in a way that is hurtful or to be offensive. I have been told by those around me that I may be a bit of a "know-it-all", well, so be it. I am very smart, and I did get to skip a grade in school, got straight a's, and I dont care if I am smart. Dont be afraid to be who u r, just try to find people who understand where you are coming from and let them know you are not trying to hurt their feelings and that "what you see is what you get".

Answer 10

hmm ... have you determined your mbti personality type

perhaps you are an intj

then that would be pretty much normal behavior

and they probably are stupid anyways

then again you could just be a b*tch