i really want to be a righteous person that's really sincere with the feamles but i just can't quit judging them by their looks and figures.
2006-10-03 08:04:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
yea it's all good baby cuz i respect all of you.
2006-10-03 08:08:42 · update #1
smurf..quit spreading that homo sh*t or get blasted quicker than you can get anal tapped again.
2006-10-03 08:22:14 · update #2
Looks matter, but only in that he be attractive TO ME! And that covers a broad spectrum I don't care if the man for me is handsome by Hollywood's standards, all I care about is that he's attractive to me, and that goes much deeper than looks - it delves into personality, character...can you make me laugh ..more than you make me cry.....if/when you find the ONE by chance or by a prearranged meeting...you might be surprised to find that beauty is in the eye of the beholder....
Not to mention that it is a fact, men are programed that way...You cant help it.....men are visual women are more emotional...sensual.......your normal!
2006-10-03 08:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you seriously can't figure out how to be a good man, then there is no hope for you. Its not hard to figure out what actions would make you either a good man, or a bad one, it's pretty clear don't you think? If you judge a women based only on looks, then you are going down the wrong path. The most gorgeous women can have the worst personality and be very ugly on the inside. Get to know an average looking women who you are not just extremely attracted to for who they are on the inside, and they will become more attractive to you. After awhile, looks do not matter as much. Building a friendship and a strong mental connection is way more important in the long run than physical attraction.
2006-10-03 15:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky one. At least you're honest.
Maybe try and imagine how you might want a daughter of yours (if you end up having children) treated by men?
Or maybe try and think how you want to be treated and treat women in that way.
I think it's fairly normal to be lured by the exterior of a person...that's the first thing you see about someone. But it's the wanting to know a person deeper than that...that's the important thing. And then loving someone despite their little imperfections.
I don't know if you can force these things. Perhaps this will happen with maturity and experience. Maybe when you've been hurt once or twice it might shape the way you think about women.
Just thoughts.
2006-10-03 15:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by medium_of_dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to realise that no matter how hard you try you will never stop judging a woman by her outward appearance. The best trick is to then get to know her before forming your opinion of her.
Women are beautiful by nature, so enjoy their beauty but don't let it cloud your abillity to form friendships or relationships. We women like to feel attractive, and sometimes even go out of our way to be attractive - so don't feel ashamed just because our 'war' gear is working :)!
2006-10-03 15:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by silent_paws 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep this in mind: the only women you are going to wind up with are the ones that will judge you. they will dump you for someone with more money, more power, better looking, etc. what goes around comes around. why dont you ask a trusted female (mom, sister, aunt) to help you find a real woman who has a brain and a soul as well as good looks. your family loves you for you and will not steer you wrong.
2006-10-03 15:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by shootergrrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for your wanting to convert. Yes, please do not judge by their looks and figures. A lot of women out there who are gorgeous inside. They're decent, have good morals, and just waiting for that same man to be like them. I hope you soon become one too...have your heart in the right place...I'm sure you will. Hope I helped you change your perspective.
2006-10-03 15:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by I'dlike2know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to be judged by your looks and figure in order to realize that yes physical attraction is important but it isn't key.
2006-10-03 15:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by Alicia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with someone that you would never think that you would go out with. Do this because this way you can see that looks aren't every thing. If you do this then you can see beyond the looks and figure. Give it a try!!
2006-10-03 15:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by macciacae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a female but maybe this might help: Christ said "what manner of men ought ye to be?, His answer was "even as I am!"
Seems pretty straight forward huh?
2006-10-03 15:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by swomedicineman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Smoothie, you need to get over yourself and start talking to ladies, tall, short, fat, thin, pretty, not so pretty. Really get to know the opposite sex and you might be surprised how enjoyable it can be.
2006-10-03 15:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋