I have arthritis, sclerosing cholangitis and ulcerative colitis and have to use a wheelchair sometimes. I'm kind of scared that if a boy does ask me out, and we're still together in the winter months, what would happen if he saw me in my wheelchair? I don't know what boys think, but some people changed their minds about me when they found out that I use a wheelchair. What would you do?
2006-10-03 07:58:56 · 5 answers · asked by Boffdude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hun if someone doesn't want to be with you because you have a wheelchair then they don't deserve you. They need to look at your personality! Don't go for someone who can't look past your wheelchair, you will find someone who loves you for you!! Good luck hun! Stay strong and keep positive! Don't be embarrassed okay!?
2006-10-03 08:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Cakoo4cocopuffs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are treating your chair and disabilities like an ugly secret.
Certainly, any guy would not need to know about all of this on the first date, but you'd certainly want to share it with him before things got too serious.
Sure- the guy might get a little freaked out, but if you give him a chance, I think most guys would be OK with it as they get to know you apart from the disabilities.
If they can't handle it after a fair shot? There are a lot of other guys out there, even if you can't see that at this point.
2006-10-03 08:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by Madkins007 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, i rly do understand ur stiuation and will try my level best to help u out...relationship is based on trust,love and respect,even if one is missing i don't think it works out...if u were to be my love, i wud have taken u to a orthodontist and wud have made sure that u r cured..i wud have taken care of u like a princess...if a person really loves u truly i am sure he wud not bother or give importance abt ur looks rather finds a solution for it...so don't wry baby, i am sure that u will find sombody like me..all the best...take gud care of urself until u find somone like me.
2006-10-03 08:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by bryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a boy really loves you then he would accept the situation....
2006-10-03 08:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by Λиδѓεy™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ill get more closer to you and entertain you or maybe ill try to hug you to make you feel better
2006-10-03 08:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by roel 2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋