My husband cheated on me, why dont I care?
2006-10-03 07:58:03 · 28 answers · asked by Christina W 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you don't love him?
2006-10-03 07:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Cakoo4cocopuffs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him? If so and you have never cheated on him in any way? Seems to me it should affect you in some manner. But if you aren't emotionally connected with him and you are someone else then maybe that could be the answer.
To be honest though, I think you do care and that may be why you are looking for an answer. If he has done this to you before, then maybe you just figure why bother he'll do it again.
I just can't see why you would want to just sit by and let it go on.
I am baffled as to why, a married women who took vows and followed them gets disrespected and taken for a fool of by her husband and doesn't seem to care.
Unless you just married him for the money
2006-10-03 08:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow - big question without many details. Without knowing you or your spouse, or anything else about the relationship, I can go out on a limb and guess... Is it possible that things haven't been all they should be for a while? In that case, one or possibly both of you might have been "gone" from the relationship for a while.
It's also possible that you're in shock, walled off from your feelings. Are you kind of numb generally, or just regarding this?
Are you maybe ready to move out on your own and start a new life? It's hard to be married to someone you can't trust - is it time to start over and rebuild your life in a way that you choose for yourself?
Hard to say absolutely without knowing more, but my guess would be either (1) shock or (2) something was already missing in the relationship, so this doesn't feel like the betrayal it normally would. Good luck!
2006-10-03 08:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he cheat on you? You say you don't care? does that meant you don't love him? Something lacking in your marriage? Are you thinking of cheating on him? Is that why you don't care? Or did you cheat on him?
2006-10-03 08:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you dont care for him like you used to. or maybe he noticed you dont care about him so that could be why he cheated on you
2006-10-03 08:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do really not care that he cheated on you or are you just repressing feelings? I was pissed when my ex..did it to me..Is there any love in your relationship anymore? All these things you should think about
2006-10-03 08:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jesabel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, LEAVE him. If you don't care then you don't love him the way a wife should love her husband. I would be devestated!
Leaving him would be the best for both of you. You can find someone you are passionate about and so can he. That is important!
2006-10-03 08:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it could be because you are cheating on him too. It could also be because you know that you are to a large degree responsible for him doing so in the first place.
2006-10-03 08:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you two don't love each other. That's probably why he cheated in the first place.
2006-10-03 08:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you feel guilty for 'pushing' him to cheat by failing him in some way.
2006-10-03 08:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because maybe u have cheated on him before...you must not love him for u to not care i would def care...but u not caring and being like whatever he is prob gonna do it again...
2006-10-03 08:00:48 · answer #11 · answered by queenbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋