my guy likes the idea of bringing another girl into our relationship, i am a bisexual female in a relationship of two years, and i have thought about women occasionally. If we did bring another female into the relationship would it hurt our bond? i am stuck because i miss being with women but i love my guy. any thoughts?
2006-10-03 07:32:22 · 15 answers · asked by WonderWhy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you and your guy need to discuss this more in depth. Usually it is just a fantasy for most guys to be with two women at one time, but if he feels you are enjoying it more than he is, he may resent that especially if he knows of your bisexual past. If however, you both go into this with the knowledge that you are doing this to bring pleasure to each other, then I see no harm and it should help strengthen your bond with one another. Just make sure that this is something you both do together only.
2006-10-03 07:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by ray ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say long term it will probably hurt the relationship. I'd also say the guy is probably very shallow and just craves satisfying his fantasy. *LOL* Any man who thinks he can satisfy two or more women and keep the honeydo list done is delusional and should seek Psychiatric help!
But then I'm a traditionalist. You know one man-one woman forsaking all others we stay together till death do us part type. What the hell do I know.
2006-10-03 07:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by namsaev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like fun. I would love to be with two chicks. Maybe you should suggest bringing in another guy as well.
2006-10-03 08:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to bring a girl.. someone you are certain of not being attached to.. that way, ur feelings will be limited to sex only and not towards her as a person...
warning : do make sure the guy doesnt get any ideas
2006-10-03 07:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are my dream girl, of course you should. You are half-way there now, didn't you say " I miss being with women (or a woman)" . If you and your man have a good strong relationship why not??
2006-10-03 08:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by carpet man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certain, I easily have.. The reasoning? once you concentrate on that i became curious.. I extremely had truly no longer kissed all of us on the time.. And my tremendous chum and that i determined we would attempt it. i'm no longer gay or bi. i have self belief extremely extremely some females are curious. I study a learn once that stated maximum females have a weigh down on a woman faster or later of their life. So, in my view it truly is it. wish it helps.
2016-11-26 00:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by mic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is always bad to bring an extra person into a relationship. what if he likes her more ? what if you like her more ? be prepared to deal with whatever happens.
2006-10-03 07:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by taw06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well up to him as bisexual and some ****** like bring his female friend too
2006-10-03 07:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i so know what you mean..im the same..but when i seen my husband with a nother girl it tore me apart..i guess it depends on how your relationship is with him..would you be jelous or are you very secure with what you two have???if so..then go for it..have fun..call me if you want..hehe j.k. good luck!!
2006-10-03 07:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he know how you feel about the situation? talk to him. having another girl there might make things better, but could also make things worse if you get jealous.. talk to him.
2006-10-03 07:35:37 · answer #10 · answered by jammin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋