I dont like how she is callinf him 4 times a day and she only calls me 1 time a day.
2006-10-03 07:18:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is NOT OK! You should tell her that this bothers you and to stop. If she is a friend, then she wouldn't be doing this.
I'd reconsider the whole "friend" thing. That is definitely NOT COOL!
2006-10-03 07:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 words: NOT A TRUE FRIEND
A true friend would never "flirt" with your boyfriend. However, talk to her about it. Maybe it is just innocent and she just wants to be his friend. Or maybe she really is a backstabbing tramp. Read out the situation and DO NOT ACT on your emotions. Use your brain, and if your boyfriend knows whats good for him, when you ask him about why she is calling him so much, he should be honest. If you think something is wrong, there probobly is and you should investigate and get to the bottom of it all. In the end, if something is going on between them, you need to tell them BOTH buhbye, cause a true friend wouldn't betray a freind and the man that truly loves you would never cheat on you.TRUST ME ON THIS, I know. I had to do the same thing.
2006-10-03 14:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by . . * h o n e y * . . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooooooooooo hell no it's not ok tha she is doin tha u need 2 tell her not mean like just be like " i dont apperaitce u being all over mty boyfriend" then tell your boyfriend tha he is goin out w/ u not her did her 4 get if she doesnt stop warn her 2 the second in about a week if nuthin changes ummm tell her 2 bac off or were not friends anymore one more week latr if nuthin changes STILL CUSE HER OUT AND THEN STOP BEING HER FRIENDS! cuz friends dont do tha 2 each other!
2006-10-03 14:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by hotthangoxox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if he is your boyfriend he needs to tell her to stop calling him. Unless of course they are talking about you. At anyrate 4 times a day that sounds a little odd to me. Does he know how you feel? If he doesnt make him aware of it and tell him it has to stop. If it doesnt then you might want to find another boyfriend.
2006-10-03 14:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your best frien then have a heart to heart talk with her and tell her how uncomfortable you feel about this. She will understand you and stop it if she is indeed your best friend. Bf's and false friendships will come and go...but true friendship and unconditional positive regard for another will last forever.
2006-10-03 14:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by jerry4_fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not get the boyfriend & your best friend together & ask them " What's going on between you two ? ! " It may
just be that she likes a friend of his & is calling him to find out more about his friend OR maybe they are planning a surprize party for you, Is it your b-day soon ?
Find out the details from them before you accuse them of anything !
2006-10-03 14:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never ok for your friends to flirt with your man. Tell them both what you think. If they do not like it, find other friends and a new man. You deserve to be treated with respect by both of them.
2006-10-03 14:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by dr's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should tell her about herself cuz thats not cute for ur friend to be tryna talk to ur bf
2006-10-03 14:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by "$exie" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no of course not your own sis don;t have any right to flirt with your bf how come your letting your bestf to do that tell her to back off and talk to your bf tell him to stop talk to her and soon before he dump you for her
2006-10-03 14:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not really but has she known your b/f longer than you?the calling is somewhat over done but i would listen to the conversation.
2006-10-03 14:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋