I got in trouble yesterday and my dad grounded me...but I wish I coulda just got whuped and got it over with.
2006-10-03 06:41:38 · 13 answers · asked by mydadisving 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unfortuanately, the easy way out would have been illegal. Life is hard and at your age it is even harder. You have to think before you do things and about the consequences involved. Serve your punishment and think twice next time. Also know that the more your parents trust you, the better life will be for all of you.
2006-10-03 06:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its pushing it a tad, but punishments evolve with age my friend. Sounds like you are obviously more unhappy with the punishment of grounding than spanking, and sorry, but thats kinda the point. You screwed up, and your dad has to use the most effective punishment possible to get through to you that you should not repeat the action. You will probably remember not getting to do all the stuff you are missing out on now a lot longer than a spanking, thus, you are less likely to screw up again! Remember that next time!
2006-10-03 13:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by ASH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if your dad is still spanking you with a belt at 15 you've got a major problem.. i'm 15 and i've never been spanked with a belt.. and i can surely say i would never want to be. maybe you were grounded because your dad is coming to terms with you growing up.. you should be proud that he has grounded you instead of spanking you.. it means he knows your growing up. :)
2006-10-03 13:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by jerika*14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never be to old to get spanked with a belt. Some people still do it and they are in their late 20s or 30's. For what purpose you may ask? lets say some people like to be naughty and get spanked
2006-10-03 13:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too old to spank for getting in trouble. Unfortunately, you just have to deal with what you got.
2006-10-03 13:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anger gets swept into the situation.... i got the crap kicked out of me til seventeen.. it affects other things in your life... i was taking crap from people at school from people who had no right to talk s***. so one day my impulse control disolved... any one any one that caused me physical pain i attacked. even if it was punishment i deserved. i put my 6'3'' 290lbs stepdad in the hospital, just because he grabbed some money off my dresser. i'm 6'1'' 138lbs max. how does that happen? i'd fight at school just because my friends were involved...usually over nothing.. do i regret my behaivior? no friggin way. but now i have a fouryear old...who's never been spanked.. he gets time out..and it'll stay that way til he's 18. i dunno. you say ""you want to be spanked?"" at 15? you obviously haven't gotten the crap kicked out of you yet.. ask if thats an option, just to have your parents beat you..it makes about as much sense. -m
2006-10-03 14:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by MAX POWER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your dad just realizes that spankings aren't going to change much at your age & consequences for your actions is a much better lesson.
2006-10-03 13:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then your to old to get a spanking! if it wasn't going to teach you the lesson the it is not an effective way to punish you!
seems like grounding you is the best way to do it sence your having issues with it!
good parents!
Good luck
Mad luv
2006-10-03 13:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spanking with a belt is not good at any age.
2006-10-03 13:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by mama T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so you did something wrong, and you are going to be punished, you do not get to pick your punishment too. Next time think before you get into trouble and then it will be OK
2006-10-03 13:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋