should i gat help?

Question

i like this guy.it is unberable. everytime i see him my knees buckle. im in highschool and at this point i wish every hot guy i meet is gay. but i always feel like pl are giving me signals. and im soooo confused. i cant stand teh PAIN!! he is amazing. what the hell can i do?

Answer 1

I suggest you be VERY careful and try to control your emotions. Seek out a Gay org. for young people in your area. They will help you identify your inner feelings. Also try a local Metropolitian Community church. Your school Psy. should be able to help also.
If you let your feelings run away from you you will find out just how hurtful people can be even your close friends.
We don't live in a perfect world, as far as people are concerned, and if this guy has NOT given you any reason for you to think he has gay thoughts, actions, etc., you would be well advised to just observe him for awhile before opening mouth and inserting foot.

Answer 2

I feel for you. this is a hard time in life when hormones are raging and every one you see seems to be making you think they want you. It is hard to be a teenager but it is part of the growing up process. Just find you some friends and jack off a lot you will be OK in no time. LOL

Answer 3

try and find out if he is gay, there must be some gay guy that is out in your school, or if he isn't out yet, then he is flamboiant, and then ask your guy if he likes or talks to that gay boy, and if he is like no, then ask why, and then you'll find out if it is gay related, and if he says yes, then he is atleast open to gay people, and therefore you can dive deeper and then ultimatly ask him if he is gay or bisexual

Answer 4

oh lord
tread carefull, find out if he likes guys first