2006-10-03 06:19:50 · 18 answers · asked by Ruby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not seeing the person, staying away for good. it takes a while but you WILL get past it.
2006-10-03 06:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by sandeep k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way, I think, is do for yourself. Treat yourself with becoming a better person, financially, physically and emotionally. Think of yourself as a great catch and that is the other person's loss, feel capable of loving and making happy anyone. Think of the good things you did during the relationship and the bad things they did. Put yourself up, and stand straight look at a bright future and think how lucky the next person you love will be.
2006-10-03 07:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by cuteboymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man i am going through that right now, It is so hard but just think about bad things that he has done to you. Distract yourself with things you like to do, keep buss as much as you can and with time eventually you will get that person out of your heart. Also try to keep in touch but keep your distance treat him like a friend and u will feel more comfortable with the hole situation.
2006-10-03 06:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by shy girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each day you go without seeing/or talking to them it gets easier - just resist all urges to contact them whether it be by email, cell, text or in person - it will make you stronger - sometimes it's hard to resist that urge but you are just setting yourself up for disappointment and possibly embarrassment - plus you will probably come across as needy - focus on all the negative things about the person & keep busy with what makes YOU happy - eventually time will heal your feelings - chalk it up to a lesson learned.
2006-10-03 06:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok love ,this is a serious answer,
as i was once in your position, i know exactly how u feel . i shall tell you what made me got over him and now i am at total peace with myself.
the answer is JESUS
i know "easier said then done right", but baby,if you pls read the word(bible) form Isaiah chp43 verse 1 to 21 .you will know wat i mean.Dear love,
jesus loves you so much that he is telling you to forget the past as he has gr8 plans for you .He will never let u go.
pls i know its so painful that it looks like time has stopped and it will not go further.my heavenly father saved me when i called to him ,all u need to do is be alone ,talk to god about all your worries and submit urself to him he is waiting for u my child ,his arms are forever open for u all the time.
remember have faith, submit urself to the one and only living father and and know that he can change all things for ur good.
"and walk in love as Christ also has loved us and given himself for us ,an offering and a sacrifice to god for a sweet smelling aroma" ephesians chp5 :2
love
angel
2006-10-03 07:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on how much you have invested into the relationship. If you don't have kids together, it helps a lot because then you don't have to see each other much. So try not to call or see this person and see how this helps you.
2006-10-03 06:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by RLS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with friends, keep buisy, it will take time but it will happen it will let up when you realize its over and eventually you will find someone else but dont rush it.
2006-10-03 06:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they dump you then you have to try to wait for the hurt to stop, a lot easier said than done, I know.
2006-10-03 06:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they dump you it would be pretty hard. In time your heart would heal but there is no cure or anything just keep your mind off him
2006-10-03 06:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and not trying to hang on to them in any way.
2006-10-03 06:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋