how can i slow this down and not "finish" so fast?
help....
2006-10-03 06:19:30 · 9 answers · asked by bob_xc452 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
pull out, make out, put back in, repeat until you are both ready
2006-10-03 06:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by violet1656 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your only problem is that you are confusing these two words: "ejaculation" and "finish". The trick is, ejaculate whenever you feel like it, but don't consider the sex finished. Continue to engage in kissing, cuddling, oral play, etc. Soon, usually within several minutes, you will get another erection. You will find that the second erection lasts much longer than the first one -- it's just a fact of physiology.
2006-10-03 06:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As Dave Chappelle says,"there is no such thing as early ejaculation, when a guy is done, he's done right on time."
Go over baseball stats or play through the Sunday football game in your head. Distraction limits reaction.
Another thing that works is to really focus on your partner - concentrate on making sure your partner is having a great time and really enjoying what's going on. This accomplishes two things:
1. She will think you are amazingly sensitive!
2. It keeps your mind off your business.
2006-10-03 06:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by GreenRoverMan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people swear that the set of exercises will help you to control the time of the ejaculation. Below listed is web site which briefly describes the exercises.
2006-10-03 06:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on something other than the naked woman your having sex with. Think about baseball, vaccumming, taking out the trash. Whatever will get your mind preoccupied with something else so you can keep up the "action" a little longer. For your sake and the sake of your partner, try anything! :)
2006-10-03 06:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by rtlsimpson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depending on your age it could be normal. I have read in many places and have tried it on several occations to masterbate prior to intercourse. Perhaps antoher road is to think of something during the activity; something that will take your mind off the moment but not enough to make you limp.
2006-10-03 06:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank of your Grandmother sitting on the toilet playing with herself!
2006-10-03 06:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what she said...also try keigle exercises, masturbate every other day, and you could also try the pull down method...just when you feel yourself starting to get there pull down on your sack hard...that sometimes works
2006-10-03 06:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by Voicekiller 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
30 min before going to her house, jerk out that first one so when you get there, youre good to go.
2006-10-03 06:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋