there's this guy I met online who lives in the same city as mine. We're not just good friends, but great. (we never met though). I think I'm special to him but dunno to which extent. I'm startin to realise I have a crush on him but I'm afraid if I tell him I loose the beautiful friendship I never had with anyone else bfr. Should I tell him?
P.S: I have certain principals, if I tell him it won't be like a real relationship..I don't like to meet guys in private or bf stuff or anything. Only luv till I find what's true....
2006-10-03 05:51:54 · 3 answers · asked by MalaK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, all i can say is, please guard your heart. you've never met him before so you wouldn't know if the personality he potray is the same personality of his in real life. you might have fallen for the online personality. get to know him more first and try hanging out with him in real life for a while before deciding your feelings. and as you said you don't like meeting guys in private, get some trusted girlfriends come along. go out for group dates or something. group dates can be very fun, really. plus, it's much much safer.
hope my opinion helped. :)
2006-10-03 06:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by sveltisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly sweetie, he may seem like a great friend and you may talk and bust it up on the phone with this person. But you don't truly know a person until you meet them and hang out with them. For all you know sweetie he could be lying. You can't trust anyone these days especially people you meet online. I had a situation for 2 yrs that I was speaking to some guy that told me all these things and he seemed so great. We became good friends but when I finally did find out who he really was, he lied about everything, age, race, job. I still met him because I wanted to confront him on why a person would do something like that, and he turned out to be a cool guy, but it just goes to show you that you cant believe everything. You have to see it with your own eyes. People come online and can create a totally different personality and just get a kick outta going along with stringing someone along to see how people react. So just be really careful!!!
2006-10-03 06:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by bebechinadoll_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go for it you should ask him if he wants to meet somewere.
2006-10-03 09:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋