i can do it manualy but i have to do it myself whats making me not be able to whilke im engaged in sex i have to manualy do it myself while when where kinnda at the end. what are the possible reasons
2006-10-03 05:50:35 · 11 answers · asked by texasjeramyholdem 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I dated a guy with the same prob a few years ago. And the only reason for it are anixety or just not knowing what feels the best to you while you are inside her. That guy I dated...I just talked really dirty to him while we were in the act and he came. He hasn't had any trouble since.
2006-10-03 06:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm answering as if you are a guy. This answer is assuming that you don't have anything medically wrong with you. I am a woman and I used to date a guy (occasionally) who didn't have a regular sex partner so he masterbated every day. As a result, his penis liked that better than the real thing, so he couldn't keep it up or couldn't reach a climax when he was with me. Your penis doesn't really have a brain. You control it by what you're thinking at the time. You need to abstain completely for a couple of weeks (including with or without a partner). Definitely keep masterbating down to a minimum, like only masterbate once a month. Then the little fella will be so happy to have real sex, that he will do what he's supposed to. Oh, and when you're with a partner, try not to think "Oh gosh, am I going to be able to come, this time ?
2006-10-03 06:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by scaredeycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if while having sex you think of what ever you do when your alone you might be more able to blow
you are use to the pressures of you hand or what ever you use
so when you are haveing sex
your are more craving the other
there is no sure way to now this or anything will work
so i am not sure if this will help
good luck
2006-10-03 06:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by eat it then die 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Performance anxiety?
The nice thing about burping the baby is that you don't have to perform for anyone.
When you're having intercourse with a woman there's a ton of stuff that goes along with it: 'am I doing okay? is she enjoying it? should I try this?' etc., etc.
You're probably just thinking too much.
FP
2006-10-03 05:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is in your head, you need to relax and not be so up-tight. Once you conquer this, you'll shoot like a howitzer.
2016-03-27 03:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and watch porn clips which show guys coming inside a woman. This always gets me to blow mine when I'm at it. It's like monkey-see-monkey-do.
2006-10-03 09:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by kettlechipsdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably worrying too much, relax and let your partner bring yu ooff with a w+nk
2006-10-03 08:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gay. That simple. Give it to her in the stinky from behind and pretend she is a guy.
2006-10-05 15:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is just a psychological problem.
2006-10-03 05:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by dpcard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in your head... the one that sits on your neck.
2006-10-03 05:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋