We have a child together, he begged and begged, he made me fall deeply in love with him. Now he drops me for his ex that has 2 kids.
2006-10-03 05:49:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like a very screwed boy who doesn't know what he wants. take care your baby and yourself. i would limit what contact you have with him to issues with the baby only. sounds like nothing but a problem.
2006-10-03 05:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you' trusted' them, (I regard the word 'trust' as a very serious state), then you obviously regarded them very highly. When they destroyed that trust, there treachery really mattered and it hurt. It hurt so much that you really never believed that it could happen, and it's very difficult to ever forget it. You can however in time forgive the friend for being so bloody stupid, but you will never forget the incident. If after this, that friend ever again make the same idiotic mistake, then not only would the friendship be terminated, but you would doubt your own judgment for ever forgiving the sod. The natural action would be to beat his head in, but this action is frowned upon in a lawful society, and you would never get the stain out of the carpet. This makes one very cautious.
2016-03-27 03:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that you are the mother of his daughter/son and that his ex is not the mother and that the child is going to be called a bastard when it grows up and you dont want your child being called that. If he doesnt want to be with you then he shouldnt of begged you to come back to him
2006-10-03 05:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by mandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie it shouldnt be too hard to get over a jerk like that. You're so much better than that and deserve so much more. He's a loser. He probably begged you to come back to him only because he wanted to hurt you....the greatest revenge in life is not letting them see you cant live without him, its showing him my life is so much better without you!!! Show that scum bag that you deserve so much better for yourself and your child.
2006-10-03 06:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by bebechinadoll_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh, guys are freaking A holes! Honestly there is nothing that you can do but let time heal your wounds. Think about all the stuff you hate about him and tell yourself you can do so much better and that you wont settle for anything less.
2006-10-03 06:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by kimberly g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to have respect for yourself and move on...it will probably be one of the hardest things you have ever had to do but focus on your child and ask God for His help to get you through this tough time.
God Bless you!
2006-10-03 05:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by Buff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know -it's hard put why dont you try to go out with your friends and have fun maybe you are going to find the person the is going to mak eyou feel good,,maybe he thought that it was goin gto be the same when he felt you but it was diffrent..and that why he when back to her..
2006-10-03 06:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, my deepest sympathy. I know you are hurting.
Seek the companionship of loving family and friends. Try to be involved in what they are doing.
It takes time to mend a broken heart.
Get counseling if you need to.
2006-10-03 05:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it one step at a time.. I think most importantly keep yourself busy! if you dont want to get back with him stay away from him and try and met new people :)
Good luck :)
2006-10-03 05:51:43 · answer #9 · answered by ZaNy_kiDd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has had his revenge, now you know how it feels, painful isnt it perhaps next time you will think twice..if indeed you ever find anyone else xx God Bless You
2006-10-03 05:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋