this girl has been telling my bf that i have been drinking and doing other things behind his back what can I do??
2006-10-03 05:33:44 · 8 answers · asked by georgia babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
does that mean when she tells him all that stuff that MAYBE she wants him??
2006-10-03 05:38:33 · update #1
but i am not doing these things I told him that I would never keep things from him and I mean it....
2006-10-03 05:47:21 · update #2
she always goes behind my back when I am not a school and she thinks that noone is going to tell me but they are. Should I fight her if she wants to fight?
2006-10-03 05:49:40 · update #3
what should i do if he starts to believe her and he comes and tells me that I have been hiding something from him when I haven't?
2006-10-03 05:56:47 · update #4
First of all, its none of her business what you do and it is not her place to discuss anything you do with your boyfriend. Lets not automatically say she isn't a true friend and lets says she is a talking friend. One that doesn't know when to keep her mouth shut and when to flap her jaws. The first thing you should do is evaluate this friendship. Is it worth anything to you? Is it dear to you? Do you love her like a sister? After you decide on whether or not this friendship is valuable to you then you should make your decision to confront her. If the friendship does mean something to you I suggest you talk to her like an adult and let her know that you don't appreciate her going back telling your boyfriend what you do and its not her place or any of her business what you do. If the friendship isn't worth anything let her know that, its obvious she isn't a good friend or a true friend at all. A true friend would go to you about whatever she is feeling and not your boyfriend. Hope this helps.
2006-10-03 05:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you doing those things?
If she is lying, than NO she isn't a good friend, but if you are doing those things, then she may just be trying to help. Maybe she thinks that you will listen more to your boyfriend when he expresses concern over your behaviors.
The question is, are you being a true friend?
2006-10-03 12:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question always has the same answer. No. Just like this time. Unless, you are doing these things in which case the answer is she is a true friend.
2006-10-03 12:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a true friend. She probably does want him and if you are doing it dehind his back,I suggest you stop otherwise he'll end up dumping you for her or maybe another chick that won't keep stuff from him. I wish you luck. P.S. lose the backstabing friend!
2006-10-03 12:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by princess2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
h e double hockey sticks NO! In my book I would call her a hata and you should dump that friend and move on, and the reason she's telling him this is probably because she wants him and if he believes her you should dump him too.
2006-10-03 12:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Ne-Ne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its true then your a bad girlfriend. If its a lie than you should drop that friend because she wants your boyfriend.
2006-10-03 12:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump her, **** stirrers are not worth having as freinds....she will always cause you trouble
2006-10-03 12:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by cheeki_chicci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you been?? and if so, then no she is not a true friend and if not then NO.
2006-10-03 12:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋